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Moorluck wrote:


Are you just looking for a fight or does being an asshat come natural to you? We've all been guilty of using derogratory terms at one point or another, doesn't make it right. If you knowingly use terms that you know are offensive then that's just... well, being an asshat. But you'll stand by what you said and show no attempt at apology. Use of terms such as Gay or Retard when used as insults degrade a group of people. That is a fact, you don't have to like it, but you know it's true. So either stop using the terms, or deal with the backlash without whining like a lil' brat when people get offended.

<3.

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Prince That Howls wrote:
Tarren Dei wrote:


That's idiotic.
Now this, this is ironic.

Not really. Idiot started out as a deprecating word, intended to refer to someone as "stupid". It is and has always been meant to be deprecating. The word retarded is a medical term that means "slowed down", and is intended to describe a person whose metal or physical development has been slowed down. They have been retarded in their development by some mental, physical, emotional, or environmental circumstance.

But please. Continue chasing your tails in this ridiculous thread.


Cosmo wrote:
Prince That Howls wrote:
Tarren Dei wrote:


That's idiotic.
Now this, this is ironic.

Not really. Idiot started out as a deprecating word, intended to refer to someone as "stupid". It is and has always been meant to be deprecating. The word retarded is a medical term that means "slowed down", and is intended to describe a person whose metal or physical development has been slowed down. They have been retarded in their development by some mental, physical, emotional, or environmental circumstance.

But please. Continue chasing your tails in this ridiculous thread.

Hey Cos,

You ought to throw this one out to Wes for possible future beasties. Goya's Bobabilicon (from the wikipedia idiot link).

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Alright, so everyone is basically saying that they agree to disagree?


Jared Ouimette wrote:
Alright, so everyone is basically saying that they agree to disagree?

Mrs. Fishy prefers the phrase "figro" to that....other phrase.


Cosmo wrote:
Prince That Howls wrote:
Tarren Dei wrote:


That's idiotic.
Now this, this is ironic.

Not really. Idiot started out as a deprecating word, intended to refer to someone as "stupid". It is and has always been meant to be deprecating. The word retarded is a medical term that means "slowed down", and is intended to describe a person whose metal or physical development has been slowed down. They have been retarded in their development by some mental, physical, emotional, or environmental circumstance.

But please. Continue chasing your tails in this ridiculous thread.

~Notices his tail has fallen off again.~

Ah Crap!

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Sebastian wrote:
Prince That Howls wrote:
Personally my definition for cult has always been “Any religion whose total following can fit in some dudes basement, and/or any religious organization that has been wiped out by Conan the Barbarian.”

Best.

Definition.

Ever.

+1


Kingturnip wrote:

What CourtFool said.

But to make a post worthwhile: within living memory, and within recent memory, these terms have been used as pejoratives. In fact, they have primarily been used as pejoratives during the whole of my life, and I have a feeling I'm older than you (given the apparent idiocy of the "vast majority" of people you run with.)

I cannot vouch for other countries, but here in the US,once a word gains a pejorative context, that word retains those connotations for many, many years even overshadowing their legitimate contexts.

When you describe something as "gay" you are not saying that it is lighthearted and fun, you are borrowing the pejorative context that the word has held for at least several decades. This does two things: it perpetuates the negative context of the word, and it reinforces that negative context to the aggrieved group that it originally applied to.

I hate with unending passion threads like this. You can continue to use these terms as much as you like, but do understand that the people you offend have a legitimate complaint. If you don't mind people hating you or getting expelled from various fora, go for it.

Gay as a pejorative is only fairly recently widespread. Maybe 15 or so years since it became widespread. Its younger then the early first person shooters as I was playing those when they first became wise spread and people where not throwing gay around as a pejorative. they where throwing around a lot of pejoratives - just not gay.


Jared Ouimette wrote:
Wow, really? To be honest Pat (can I call you Pat?), I never really cared what you think about me. Discount everything I write? How childish of you, and here you were the one trying to chastize me for the same behavior.

No, you can't call me Pat. Only my friends do. You can call me Mr. Curtin. And I'm not the one advocating for the right to insult people without feeling bad about it. That would be you. And yes, if this forum had an ignore button, you would be one of the first people I'd use it on. Since we have yet to get one, I'll just have to make this my swan song post to you, since I've already wasted too much time on this asinine thread.

So have fun, say what you like, and have a great day.

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Patrick Curtin wrote:
Jared Ouimette wrote:
Wow, really? To be honest Pat (can I call you Pat?), I never really cared what you think about me. Discount everything I write? How childish of you, and here you were the one trying to chastize me for the same behavior.

No, you can't call me Pat. Only my friends do. You can call me Mr. Curtin. And I'm not the one advocating for the right to insult people without feeling bad about it. That would be you. And yes, if this forum had an ignore button, you would be one of the first people I'd use it on. Since we have yet to get one, I'll just have to make this my swan song post to you, since I've already wasted too much time on this asinine thread.

So have fun, say what you like, and have a great day.

Ok, Pat. I love you, too.


Well, that's cool, I think this thread has run its course. Locked.

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