
Steven Tindall |

look at the whole bright side of the equation YD. 40 is a great place to be.
I think of some folks in my life that never made it this far like a former roommate that sucked down a bullet because the woman he loved didn't return his affection and wanted to be just friends or the friend or two that never came back from the first gulf war. I'm not trying to be depressing just want you to realize that 40 is the start of a lot more good living.
If I may ask what do you plan to do with the next 40 yrs?
I'm working on my degree and paying on a house rather than rent and basically taking better care of myself.

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Callous Jack wrote:They left empty handed.Sieglord wrote:Why...specifically... were you expecting to be dead?The aliens were coming to take his brain.
Had my midlife crisis at twenty ergo 2 x 20 = 40.
And they only left empty handed because I told them where they could find your brain...

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In what can only be described as a very scary and disturbing way, I sympathize with YD on this one. I'm not 40 yet (next May), but today I was driving past Villanova and realized that I was in college before the latest batch of freshmen were even born.
And we will go away realizing that they will be half as good.
Bad news...the morning you turn 40 you wake up with a neck pain and the tast of peanut butter in your mouth. Must be an ulcer.

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Do what Mr. Fishy did stop having birthday's...They come for you near the end and take you to the....Death Star.
Not the Death Star. The Near Death Star.
And really, that's no space station, that's a moon.

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YD and Aberzombie,
There is a birthday rule I have been running with since I turned 20. Do not stress any birthday from 20 on that does not evenly divide into a century. So 20, 25 and 50 are the only ones you should stress (if you hit 100, why stress?).
And Happy birthday YD. Hopes it far exceeds your expectations. :)

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Tomorrow (9-Sept) I turn 40. I was expecting to be dead by now. Sure That whole people die eventually crap is a scam to draw your attention from the fact they are exposing you to a singularity to off you...but still I was really invested in the Lies that prop up our 'civilization'.
You're like the rest of us... tomorrow you get one day older than you are today. If we didn't bother to track birthdays, we'd hardly notice. I actually think that tracking your years numerically is an adder to stress.

HarbinNick |

We lost the first of our gaming group over 5 years ago, to a heart attack, she was 38.
I turn 40 in November. After losing Donna, I realized that every day we're alive is a gift.
a 38 year old heart attack? was it bad genetics or what? I worry cause my dad has a heart murmur/arythmia thing.

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Matthew Morris wrote:a 38 year old heart attack? was it bad genetics or what? I worry cause my dad has a heart murmur/arythmia thing.We lost the first of our gaming group over 5 years ago, to a heart attack, she was 38.
I turn 40 in November. After losing Donna, I realized that every day we're alive is a gift.
High pain tolerance and stubbornness. Her husband finally got her to go to the ER, but it was too late and she collapsed there. May have been genetics, but we didn't know of a history of heart trouble, and she was too damn stubborn to have previous bouts checked out.
She smoked a lot too, that might have been a factor.

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The memories of a man in his old age
Are the deeds of a man in his prime.
You shuffle in gloom of the sickroom
And talk to yourself as you die.
Life is a short, warm moment
And death is a long cold rest.
You get your chance to try in the twinkling of an eye:
Eighty years, with luck, or even less.
Pink Floyd, Free Four.
(Aside, I always heard that last bit as "You get your chance to try, in the twinkling of an eye, Eighty years you'll like her even less")