Should we keep queuing questions while you deal with this life event?Yes
You bringin' that extra Starfinder book to the next D&D game? :-)
Have you been lost?
Have you been wrong?
Have you been wise?
Have you been strong?
Yes
Should we keep queuing questions while you deal with this life event?YesYou bringin' that extra Starfinder book to the next D&D game? :-)
Probably...my friend is currently borrowing it....though I should get it back by than...
Does your company ship Fruity Oaty Bars?
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Does your company ship Fruity Oaty Bars?
Damn it...I just blacked out and there is a bunch of dead people around me...
Um...probably...I work for UPS so that would depend on the Fruity Oaty Bars company.
Damn it...I just blacked out and there is a bunch of dead people around me...
Sounds like the start of a PbP adventure!
OR
Sounds like the start of your career as a Dissociative Disorder Serial Killer!
Does your company ship Fruity Oaty Bars?Damn it...I just blacked out and there is a bunch of dead people around me...
Did you say fhqwhgads right before doing so?
Did you say fhqwhgads right before doing so?Does your company ship Fruity Oaty Bars?Damn it...I just blacked out and there is a bunch of dead people around me...
No...I do not think so...
Damn it...I just blacked out and there is a bunch of dead people around me...Sounds like the start of a PbP adventure!
OR
Sounds like the start of your career as a Dissociative Disorder Serial Killer!
A weather report sounds like the start of a PbP adventure to you....and they call me insane ;)
and they call me insane ;)No, you're not insane. I've actually seen and had a close brush with a crazy person. You don't qualify.
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I was joking...
mmm...
Does this thread need to be re-named?
*In a deadly serious voice* Kretzer Men Don't Dance.Oh come on!"What is best fire dance you do?"I don't dance
Does this mean that "You Can Dance, If You Want To ..."
Does this thread need to be re-named?
I think I will wait a week or so....don't want people getting confused.
*In a deadly serious voice* Kretzer Men Don't Dance.Oh come on!"What is best fire dance you do?"I don't danceDoes this mean that "You Can Dance, If You Want To ..."
Good question...I have not tried since...my big realization. Probably not though as I do not know of any Kretzer Women that Dance...I will have to give another try.
Are you considering the full conversion surgery?
Are you considering the full conversion surgery?
I am....but that is a day that is kinda far in the future.
Are you considering the full conversion surgery?I am....but that is a day that is kinda far in the future.
True, it is very expensive.
True, it is very expensive.Are you considering the full conversion surgery?I am....but that is a day that is kinda far in the future.
And there is a lot of hoops to go through.
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I decided to repost my first post in the LGBT Gamer thread....as it can explain things to people who frequent this thread...
'Hello I am Rysky's friend. I decided to come out and just use a alias. Hopefully the people I know in RL don't hang on all of my posts to look at my alias..and if they do..I will deal with it. I mean eventually I hope all of my friends will know...I just prefer to start out small with the people I have known the longest.
So here is it my experiences with self discovery(it even relates big to gaming)...it maybe long and a little rambling at times..so bear with me.
I have always felt different...I would stare at myself in the mirror just thinking is that Me? I always had dreams and fantasys of being a woman. I grew up in a conservative household...and at the time I was not as exposed to the LGBT community. So I would self rationalize it has..I don't know what exactly...normal curiosity or trying to get in a women mindset for writing purposes.
Than I discovered RPGs...and every character I play is female. I loved role-playing female characters...it just felt natural to me. As the years went by I just accepted the fact I am a lesbian woman born into the wrong body. Or maybe bi...I don't get grossed out by the idea of sex with a man...I just never met a man I was attracted to. Anyway playing female characters..and writing storys involving female character seemed to be enough.
Now the group I have been playing has been together for many years...sometimes issues arises when you are with people that long. One of the players complaints about me is that I always play female lesbians. My initial reaction to this was anger that no one says player x always plays straight men...but when I thought about it was slightly unfair of me. They don't know. So we are having a group meeting to discusses these things. That is when I decided to come out to that group. I have not yet...but I have come out to some people..maybe as a test run.
Now that I have come out to a few people...I feel alot better about it. It is like once I said the last resistance to the ideal has gone away. I finally feel true to myself.
Now...I want to dress up in a dress with make up and wig (stupid male pattern baldness)...and go out on dates with women. But there are fears of discovery by my family. I do still live at home.
Don't get me wrong I love my family...well maybe not my younger sister...and they love me. But this would cause lots of tension that I don't want right now. Ultimately I believe they would accept me...but I am worried about putting it to a test.
Lastly I know anybody can just click on my alias and know who I am...and some of you might be surprised. And I don't care that much if you do...hopefully one day it won't matter...but I am asking people to keep quiet outside of this thread about it.
Thank you for allowing me to share this with you and if anybody has any question feel free to ask...Question help me examine and order my own thoughts about this.'
So no more questions?
Congratulations on the courage and honesty to be who you are most comfortable being, even if only for the short time you're on the boards.
Honest self reflection is never easy, kudos to you!
Congratulations on the courage and honesty to be who you are most comfortable being, even if only for the short time you're on the boards.
Honest self reflection is never easy, kudos to you!
Well I am out with most of my friends...and my Mom(she even buy me dresses). But it is the rest of the family that is keeping me back...but I am getting less worried about it.
After this Christmas I will get the rest of what I need to start presenting as female...but even than I have to be careful as along as I live at home. My father will not react well to this...not saying he won't eventually accept it...but living him while he is adjusting would be hell. And my sister and one of my nieces would use it against me...I have no idea how my brother would react.
But I am not starting to worry about it that much because...well look at the thread 'I Lost My Friend'.
Are you planning on moving soon or sticking for now?
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@Rysky and John: Ahem! Hugs are not questions...this thread is for questions. I am kidding Hugs are always welcome here. :)
Are you planning on moving soon or sticking for now?
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It will probably take a while...unless I win the lottery.
It will probably take a while...unless I win the lottery.Are you planning on moving soon or sticking for now?
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Me too :-)
Well you do have two giant dogs(or are they really small ponies?) to feed...
Do you prefer published settings or homebrew?
Small ponies but Mags was sick this weekend so that was great fun, first an ear infection than horrific vomiting. So that's when a big dog which usually equals big fun instead equals big mess :-(
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Do you prefer published settings or homebrew?
Unless the person who created the homebrew is very detail oriented...published setting because there is so much more info to inspire ideas.
Small ponies but Mags was sick this weekend so that was great fun, first an ear infection than horrific vomiting. So that's when a big dog which usually equals big fun instead equals big mess :-(
I am so sorry to hear that....
Small ponies but Mags was sick this weekend so that was great fun, first an ear infection than horrific vomiting. So that's when a big dog which usually equals big fun instead equals big mess :-(I am so sorry to hear that....
These things happen.
You good for Friday?
If last game was a New Hope, what's the theme of the next game?
I should be there this Friday...next a Friday is the memorial for my friend.
My guess is...Idiocracy...;)
I should be there this Friday...next a Friday is the memorial for my friend.
My guess is...Idiocracy...;)
Too much like "Real Life."
Of the available Science Fiction settings, what ones do you like best?
I like space opera type settings...
I like space opera type settings...
Rephrase: "What space opera type Science Fiction RPG settings do you like?
I like space opera type settings...Rephrase: "What space opera type Science Fiction RPG settings do you like?
Star Wars...Guardians of the Galaxy....Firefly
Star Wars...Guardians of the Galaxy....FireflyI like space opera type settings...Rephrase: "What space opera type Science Fiction RPG settings do you like?
There's a Guardians of the Galaxy RPG setting?
There's a Guardians of the Galaxy RPG setting?Star Wars...Guardians of the Galaxy....FireflyI like space opera type settings...Rephrase: "What space opera type Science Fiction RPG settings do you like?
Well technically there was the Marvel Super Hero system by TSR...
I missed the RPG part...
So I requested this thread to be renamed....still waiting...
So I requested this thread to be renamed....still waiting...
What is your new name?
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So I requested this thread to be renamed....still waiting...What is your new name?
I have not legally change it yet....but I am going as Selene Spires now...
I have not legally change it yet....but I am going as Selene Spires now...So I requested this thread to be renamed....still waiting...What is your new name?
Given your family situation, that could be kind of ... challenging.
Given your family situation, that could be kind of ... challenging.I have not legally change it yet....but I am going as Selene Spires now...So I requested this thread to be renamed....still waiting...What is your new name?
Well not with family....they still know me by the old name.