
Cyna Singer |

Nah we have it every month and it's the same thing each time. A review on how we do things over the phone.
As long as my scores are high I won't get in trouble for it.

Cyna Singer |

@Sadhana
At 1st level, a magus can expend 1 point from his arcane pool as a swift action to grant any weapon he is holding a +1 enhancement bonus for 1 minute. For every four levels beyond 1st, the weapon gains another +1 enhancement bonus, to a maximum of +5 at 17th level
Oblivion is a base +2 weapon. ^This should stack to a +4 at your current level.

Cyna Singer |

Yup. The handbook includes info for Forgotten realms, Greyhawk and Dragonlance.
Dragonborn, Gnome, Half-Elf, Half-Orc and Tiefling are all uncommon and appear after Drawf, Elf, Halfling and Human.
Interesting changes include, No Base Attack Bonus, Feats are an optional rule, and you can't have an ability score over 20.

Arista Milocathe |

Well...except for the few dishes left from dinner, everything is done along with the laundry. I can breath a little bit, though I'm still feeling a little groggy.

Sādhanā Risbane |

Might go camping for a day just because X wants to spend a night in a tent outdoors. Other than that all the summer things I haven't gotten to do so far.
Take him to the Museum of natural History to see the Dinosaurs. It's his first Summer vacation so I want it to be memorable.

Arista Milocathe |

Kids are the best!!! We finally got our names sorted out for if we have one. We have two picks for a boy and a girl. Our two names that we picked out are:
Girls: Anne Marie and Sarah Belle
Boys: John Andrew and Nathaniel Alexander
Those are our top picks. This next month they go in and look at my fallopian tubes....if they are blocked, they can clear them by forcing something through. I think them pushing the dye through them for the pictures should do it. It sounds a bit painful, but I'll do what I have to do. There is a chance that I could end up with twins since I fall under so many of the categories of things that contribute to women conceiving twins. That's why we picked out two names for each sex because if I have two girls or two boys I wanted to make sure I had a name for each. Also depends on if they put me on any medications to get pregnant or not. Chlomide is one of the drugs they use to increase fertility and it also increases the chances of twins. Sooo...we'll see. I'd kinda like to have just one at a time with a max of two children....but, who knows?

Arista Milocathe |

It took us a looonnnggggg time to figure out the names. We had to find another name that went well with John since henry didn't want to give him the middle name we originally had planned on...after his friend from CA. John is actually for the neurosurgeon who did my brain surgery. Dr. John Day....he literally saved my life by finding and getting rid of the blood clot that was floating around inside the cyst that was cutting off my pituitary functions which among other things controls reproductive hormones. It's really hard to find names that go with John though...we tossed around a few and I liked Andrew the best.... It just made sense to me. We came up with two names for each in case I had twins of one sex instead of one boy and one girl. It took alot longer to come up with the boys names than it did the girl names though. I don't know why....

Arista Milocathe |
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Every woman in the last couple generations of our family has had a boy first and then girls...so if I follow the pattern...it very well could be a boy...I'd be happy with either...provided we can figure out what our issues are that are causing the lack of pregnancy power and fix it.

Arista Milocathe |

I requested a drop shift since my dad is having surgery and they denied it so I basically just sent my boss a letter saying f@#& you I'm taking it off anyways and there's nothing you can f+$@ing do about it under FMLA law. So Suck IT!

Arista Milocathe |

I really f!%#ing hate those a#@!%~~s. I have absolutely had it with those f'ing bastards. I am sick to death of their bullshit and I'm ready to burn the f~&+ing place to the ground.

Arista Milocathe |

Now...I'm all pissed off again and ready to just f+~$ing quit. I don't even know if I can go to sleep now. I should have just waited to read that. Damn AssHats!!

Cyna Singer |

Asshats indeed.
Our job's don't control us, so these "request off" forms are really heads up" forms.
What are they gonna do shackle you to a water heater?

Arista Milocathe |

They could try....but they REALLY wouldn't like the results. I can't sleep now....I'm trying not to let it get to me...but, it's just one more thing on top of a whole other pile of things that really really make me want to just chuck it all and quit.

Cyna Singer |

You clearly don't enjoy your job though that seems to be mostly because of how they treat you.
I'd still recommend sticking with it until you have a replacement.

Arista Milocathe |

Yeah...it's not that I don't enjoy helping people even though sometimes the patients can really get on my nerves....I just don't know what else I would do...I have to be able to go back to school and get my counselors license and the rest of my education before I can get a better job. I'm still trying to transfer out...but the float pool a*+*+!%s don't want to let me go and will come up with phony bullshit marks against my record so that I have to stay with them. It's such crap....at this point I'm just wishing for a giant space rock to land right on top of the fecking place and destroy every last bit of it.
Shit....I just really don't care anymore. UAMS stands for U are MY Slave and they are truly trying to live up to the name I guess. It's like you sign that little piece of paper and they think they own your ass.

Arista Milocathe |

Been there, done that. When they pulled all that shit about my FMLA and I couldn't transfer out of the department because they had said that I had all these unexcused absences because I couldn't use FMLA...my supervisor suddenly "Lost" all the notes I had given her from the dr's and since I couldn't "Prove" anything physically they just dropped it.
They always find a way to get away with the crap they pull. It's one of the perks of being run by the government and getting all that funding. They don't give two shits about what happens to the "little" people that work their asses off every day to make the money for them.
It's like a mega corporation and they get away with whatever they want because of whatever stupid reason. The common worker is always replaceable, always and they don't let us forget it either.

Arista Milocathe |

It's whatever anyways...they do whatever the hell they want and get away with it because they can...it's sadly the way things work these days. The ones with money and power can do basically whatever they want, while the rest of us have to be the ones killing ourselves just to get by.
Eventually their luck will run out and they will come up against someone or something that they can't use money or influence to hide behind and then they'll be f$@&ed. So...until that day I just have to grin and bear it and deal with all the shit they give me until I can get the f**+ outta there.
I put in the drop request again, and in the reasons section put in bold and all caps, FATHER HAVING SURGERY, WILL NOT BE IN TOWN. If they still deny it, it's fine I'll just call in and use FMLA and they can't f$&$ing touch me even though they'll still try to give me points for it like they did when my mother was in the hospital...but then I'll sue them.
Besides I already sent that email to my direct supervisor and told her exactly what they could do with their drop requests and that I would be out of town whether they approved the time off or not. So...whatever, if they wanna fire me they can go ahead cuz I need the money that a giant ass lawsuit will get me.

Arista Milocathe |

Okay...I'm gonna go outside, take a few deep breaths and then go back and try to lay down again. I really really need more sleep to deal with everything we gotta do today. I'm really tired, I'm just also super pissed and Henry tried to distract me with talking about baby stuff....but, I just can't get b+%#& face outta my head.

Arista Milocathe |

Ugghhh I'm awake I'm awake...I did finally go to sleep, but it wasn't easy and then I was dreaming that I was pregnant and working in that place and kicking some chicks ass for some reason. I didn't recognize who it was, so I have no idea.

Arista Milocathe |

Ugghh, okay now I gotta go take care of the dog, give her medicine for travel so she doesn't spaz, brush her teeth, and find something to try and repel the fleas and ticks that are all over the place at mom and dads.
Then I have to go take a shower. I'll check on things before we leave.