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VixieMoondew wrote:A bonebruise is a possibility. My wife had pretty much the same thing happen from a slip on ice and it took the better part of six months to stop hurting. Landing hard on a nice bundle of nerves can really suck, but there's little you can do aside from trying to reduce the pressure on the area with cushions and things like that.thejeff wrote:VixieMoondew wrote:I fell down the steps on my tailbone last Friday. While it seemed to be getting better for the first couple days, I haven't seen any improvement in like a week. x.o Starting to wonder if I need to get it looked at, but I haven't figured out a PCP since I got insurance at the start of the year.Sadly, there isn't much they can do about a broken tailbone, assuming that's what it is. Can't really put a cast on your butt.
I broke mine in a pretty serious fall a few years ago. Never actually went to the doctor. :)
It was a week or so before I could even sit for more than a few minutes and months before it was mostly better.
Initially suspected a basic bruise, but I feel like it's not painful enough to be broken. Guessing at this point it's sprained, since it seems to be behaving somewhere inbetween. :P
Friend of mine recommends getting a bonut, so I'll see if I can will myself to the store and pick one up.
Yupppp. Fun part is, I've got a desk job, so I'm gonna be sitting on it in some way shape or form for 8 hours a day.

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So it has been a year since I started coming out to friends as a transgendered woman. Some things have changed...and frustratingly some things have not. This place though has been a constant source of support, advice, and comfort. So thank you all and *hugs*.
Special shout though to Rysky *hug*...you are probably my best friend that I have never actually met.
And Ambrosia Slaad who lurks about sometimes but sent some very supportive PMs...*hugs*
*hugs* You are one of my best friends too Selene. I hope things continues to improve and your days get better and better.
*channels positive feelings and offers hugs to anyone and everyone that wants or needs some*

Uncle Teddy's Bear, Fred |
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Good morning, everyone. Been rather busy so haven't had the time like I wanted to stop by and give all you wonderful people my love (stupid life).
* grabs everyone who wants or needs one in a big, soft, fluffy, extra-special bear hug designed to take away their pain *
And Selene I second that about Rysky.
Oh, before I forget...
* claps for Vixie *

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For those who would be interested in awesome erotic art my buddy REv just launched a Kickstarter to be able to do a hardcover print run of his comic, I Roved Out (link kinda NSFW).
The comic itself is up for free online if you'd like to read it, this Kickstarter is solely for the Hardcover (the comic is VERY Not Safe For Work, in a good way ^w^).

Freehold DM |
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For those who would be interested in awesome erotic art my buddy REv just launched a Kickstarter to be able to do a hardcover print run of his comic, I Roved Out (link kinda NSFW).
The comic itself is up for free online if you'd like to read it, this Kickstarter is solely for the Hardcover (the comic is VERY Not Safe For Work, in a good way ^w^).
so YOU are the one who turned me on to that comic....thank you!

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Rysky wrote:so YOU are the one who turned me on to that comic....thank you!For those who would be interested in awesome erotic art my buddy REv just launched a Kickstarter to be able to do a hardcover print run of his comic, I Roved Out (link kinda NSFW).
The comic itself is up for free online if you'd like to read it, this Kickstarter is solely for the Hardcover (the comic is VERY Not Safe For Work, in a good way ^w^).
Hehehe np ^w^

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For those who would be interested in awesome erotic art my buddy REv just launched a Kickstarter to be able to do a hardcover print run of his comic, I Roved Out (link kinda NSFW).
The comic itself is up for free online if you'd like to read it, this Kickstarter is solely for the Hardcover (the comic is VERY Not Safe For Work, in a good way ^w^).
And Funded!

Bob_Loblaw |
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I'm still around, just mostly lurking. I'm following everyone's trials and tribulations. I'm really sorry about what's going on with Selene and John right now. I wish I could do something to help.
My life has gone way down hill, but that's not what I came here to talk about. I came here to talk about something positive that happened to me. I spent the weekend with family. Saturday was with my cousin, her husband, their baby, and 12-year-old son. They completely and 100% accepted me for who I am. They called me Bob instead of Cindy, and I never corrected them. I figured that I could worry about that at another time. I was just happy that they welcomed me into their home as is.
Sunday was spent with another part of the family. This is where I presented as Bob only. I needed to find out if I could come out to them safely instead of assuming the worst. After talking to them, I know who I can trust, who I can't, who would try to make an effort, who wouldn't, and who would not want me involved in family events anymore. To be honest, everyone was exactly who I was expecting them to be. I just wanted to know for sure.
Now that I have this information, I know that I will not be coming out to the rest of the family for a while. They talk to each other almost daily and this is a topic that would definitely come up. My parents were not there and I am not completely certain how my father would react. I think I know how my mother would. My brother already knows and he is completely fine with it. My step brother does not know and I think that he would accept it, but find it difficult to change names and pronouns only because we don't interact much so he would have a hard time breaking a 40 year habit. My step sister and her family are horrible people and I don't care in the slightest what they think. I just know that any family gatherings would be very uncomfortable. She already makes things difficult. No need to make things worse.
So anyway, the positive things were that my cousin got to meet Cindy and that I have information about the rest of the family. Oh, and my best friend made homemade banana bread just for me.

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My awesome manager from work has been transferred as of Sunday to a store that is even worse than ours.
Mathematically, it's supposed to be a better store and a promotion, but the person she's replacing outright quit last week -- just walked out the door part of the way through their shift.
Meanwhile, her replacement at our store isn't due for anywhere from 2-8 weeks (they broke their leg and they're out on disability right now).
I may need some distance hugs here in the next few weeks... our store has once again gone from 'skeleton crew' status to 'broken skeleton crew status'.

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Just a posting of happiness.
I regularly attend a transsupport group. It was nice, with the usual suspects and a couple of newcomers. Every stage of transition represented on both MtF and FtM. Amazing what HRT can do regardless of starting age. Anyhoos...
So after the meeting, one of the girls and I (both MtF), spontaneously want out afterwards for drinks to touch upon subject matter verboten within the group (hotbutton topics like politics and/or religion etc which tend to derail and override the message of support). Needless to say, my gender rebel co-conspirator was on fire as I see her becoming more active as she transitions. While she blends easily and even passes, when she is beside me it aint possible. Regardless, going out amongst the muggles, we weren't spared more than a second glance during the dinner/happy hour crush.
Relaxing and normal.