Artanthos |
1. No, you cannot have unused evolution points. You can, however, change their allocation each time you level.
2. Purchase the limbs(arms) evolution. The specifics on appearance are at the discretion of the summoner.
Your player could start with a Drider eidolon at level 1 by taking a quadruped eidolon and purchasing arms or by taking a biped eidolon and purchasing legs. The eidolon could be defined as having additional sets of legs, but gains no mechanical benefit until the limbs are actually purchased.