That's what I get for having multiple tabs open at the same time. I intended this for the Pathfinder Campaign Setting board...) Pay it no mind....*waves hand* This isn't the post you're looking for....
I think it would depend on the local culture. Abadar works with cities: whatever the laws of the local city are. But I could easily see Abadar selecting a noble guy who wants to defend his civilization, or a peasant girl who ran away to the city and loved it, or anything in between.