10 Habits of Charisma

[Grand Magus]

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I've never met a Sorcerer like this before?

>Charisma isn't something you have. It's something you earn.<

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[Matthew Morris]

Grand Magus wrote:

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I've never met a Sorcerer like this before?

>Charisma isn't something you have. It's something you earn.<

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Different Charisma.

Those tactics are skill oriented in a Pathfinder POV.

1) Bluff

2) Diplomacy

3) Diplomacy

4) Diplomacy

5) Bluff

6) Diplomacy

7) Diplomacy

8) Diplomacy (or perform, oratory)

9) Common sense (which, admittedly isn't common)

10) Diplomacy. (I use this a lot in self effacing humour. "Of course I make mistakes. If I hadn't I'd not be divorced.")

A Charismatic person can make a snide remark naturally that you'll catch later. A skilled person is the one who can tell you to go to Hell in a way that you look forward to the trip.

(Take it from someone who has (I like to believe) slightly above average charisma, but has had to work to develop a lot of the skills above.)

[Terquem]

"I come not to praise Ceasar, but to bury him." Rolling a 20 on a diplomacy check.

[Tiny Coffee Golem]

I'm showing this article to my husband. Specifically the unsolicited advice thing.

[Lochmonster]

Tiny Coffee Golem wrote:

I'm showing this article to my husband. Specifically the unsolicited advice thing.

Offering unsolicited advice about his unsolicited advice problem...I'm sure it can't possibly end in an argument.

*I kid! I kid!*

[Orthos]

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9) Common sense (which, admittedly isn't common)

And generally is agreed to fall under Wisdom anyway. ;)

[heimdallsgothi]

The 6 attribute response to rain

Strength: Shrug it off
Dexterity: Dodging Raindrops
Constuition: Resisting the Cold Virus
Intelligence: Its Raining
Wisdom: Lets go Inside
Charisma: Singin' in the Rain

[Tiny Coffee Golem]

Lochmonster wrote:

Tiny Coffee Golem wrote:

I'm showing this article to my husband. Specifically the unsolicited advice thing.

Offering unsolicited advice about his unsolicited advice problem...I'm sure it can't possibly end in an argument.

*I kid! I kid!*

True, but we'll be arguing when he offers unsolicited advice regardless. I'm not really out anything and I have a very very small chance that he'll realize what he's doing.

Perhaps I'll wait until he offers unsolicited advice then just hand him a printed version of the article with the relevant lines highlighted. Because that's not passive aggressive at all. ;-)