
Blueluck |

I used to run games of D&D 3/3.5 for kids at a game store, and I'd do this informally. I generally approached it by role, class, race, and specialty.
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What would you rather do?
- Fight in combat
- Cast spells
- A little of both
Would you rather be?
- Strong
- Quick
- Tough
- Intelligent
- Wise
- Charismatic
Next, narrow it down a bit. for example:
Fight in combat + Quick = Would you rather fight with swords or bows?
At this point, you've narrowed down class to just a few choices. Next I would present the top 2-3 classes with one-sentence descriptions. For example, if she says "Swords" you know you want a melee DEX build, so offer Rogue and Ranger.
Once she's chosen a class (and basic build) only offer the races that are good at that role.
There's my 2 cents. I've always been a bit annoyed that the books are set up with [i]race[i] before [i]class[i] because I find it much more important to decide "What do I want to do?" before anything else.