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Freehold DM wrote:
captain yesterday wrote:

Yup, helps having a high pain tolerance and exercise is super helpful.

She walked up Queen Anne hill every day when she was pregnant with Crookshanks, and then had to walk two miles every day during her Tiny T-Rex pregnancy.

Edit: Also, we're weird that way, so results will vary.

Damn.

Please allow me to have children by your wife. Our get will be powerful and smart.

Cap seems like a really laid back guy, but I think you just asked for permission to bang his wife, and I'm pretty sure even he isn't gonna be cool with that. His family is the only thing I've ever seen him type excitedly about and with passion.

All I'm saying is if a guy who looks like Eddie Vedder drives up to your building with a crowbar in hand, you call the cops.

EDIT - Note, it is different than the crowbar I currently have in hand, being nekkid.


I'd never make it through Indiana with a brand new crowbar.


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The Vagrant Erudite wrote:

Things I realized about going to Ohio:

1. I will be the only person for hundreds of miles who says dude on the regular.

2. No more beach stuff in the grocery store. This is a thing in Florida. Ask Ambrosia or Tac. You walk into a Publix, Winn-Dixie, or any other grocery chain, and there's an aisle devoted to beach toys, beach balls, liferafts, swimsuits, etc. It's usually on the wall near the front, but sometimes it's about two away from the dog food.

3. No more Publix subs! This...this is pretty awful to lose.

4. I won't have to explain how I hate the beach despite it being free entertainment within a five minute drive. Nobody cares if you hate the lake

** spoiler omitted **

7. Amish people aren't far. Imma have butter you only dreamed of, unless you're captain yesterday.

It's the Midwest, everyone is twenty years behind the west and east coasts, so they just started saying "dude!" five years ago.


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We pass Jacksonville on the way up to Ohio. After a lot of long internal debate, I decided I'm going to try to visit my ex-wife.

I haven't seen her in almost a year. The very thought of seeing her face-to-face...dude, emotions. Like so many. I miss her like a piece of my very soul was ripped out.

(We divorced 'cause I have lots of mental disorders, she was constantly sad taking care of me, and I didn't want her to hurt. In a manic assurance to myself that I was helping her, I pushed the divorce through quickly to make it hurt less for me. She had brought it up 2x in the past, and when she said she was still sad, even when I was working at the post office, and seeing group therapy and stuff...I just felt like I could never make her happy, and I really...just all I wanted, you know? I love my girlfriend, but...it's the difference between shooting a bullet and throwing one in potency. The saddest part is I know if she'd take me back, there's a 9/10 chance I'd work my ass off towards it.)

So Monday I'm stopping for lunch with her. My girlfriend is going to take the dogs and give us some privacy. I'm not gonna do anything. It's just...I'm moving to Ohio and I don't know when I'll see her again.

So, as nervous as I am for moving, and I really am (I hate uncertainty), and as scared as I am for a 15 hour drive, and as bubbling as my insides are at the thought that I won't know anyone personally except through my girlfriend's family for hundreds of miles away....that one lunch beats it all combined.

Is that f+!$ed up? It feels seriously f!!&ed up.


Fritzy, Flaming Bike Artillery wrote:
Stops gorging on Wisconsin cheese and oogling barn mice long enough to pull the trigger.

there are MILKMICE?

Fritzy, I got this one, you go get snout deep in milkmouse mammaries!


The Vagrant Erudite wrote:

We pass Jacksonville on the way up to Ohio. After a lot of long internal debate, I decided I'm going to try to visit my ex-wife.

I haven't seen her in almost a year. The very thought of seeing her face-to-face...dude, emotions. Like so many. I miss her like a piece of my very soul was ripped out.

(We divorced 'cause I have lots of mental disorders, she was constantly sad taking care of me, and I didn't want her to hurt. In a manic assurance to myself that I was helping her, I pushed the divorce through quickly to make it hurt less for me. She had brought it up 2x in the past, and when she said she was still sad, even when I was working at the post office, and seeing group therapy and stuff...I just felt like I could never make her happy, and I really...just all I wanted, you know? I love my girlfriend, but...it's the difference between shooting a bullet and throwing one in potency. The saddest part is I know if she'd take me back, there's a 9/10 chance I'd work my ass off towards it.)

So Monday I'm stopping for lunch with her. My girlfriend is going to take the dogs and give us some privacy. I'm not gonna do anything. It's just...I'm moving to Ohio and I don't know when I'll see her again.

So, as nervous as I am for moving, and I really am (I hate uncertainty), and as scared as I am for a 15 hour drive, and as bubbling as my insides are at the thought that I won't know anyone personally except through my girlfriend's family for hundreds of miles away....that one lunch beats it all combined.

Is that f!*+ed up? It feels seriously f&&!ed up.

are you sure this is wise?


The Vagrant Erudite wrote:

Things I realized about going to Ohio:

1. I will be the only person for hundreds of miles who says dude on the regular.

2. No more beach stuff in the grocery store. This is a thing in Florida. Ask Ambrosia or Tac. You walk into a Publix, Winn-Dixie, or any other grocery chain, and there's an aisle devoted to beach toys, beach balls, liferafts, swimsuits, etc. It's usually on the wall near the front, but sometimes it's about two away from the dog food.

3. No more Publix subs! This...this is pretty awful to lose.

4. I won't have to explain how I hate the beach despite it being free entertainment within a five minute drive. Nobody cares if you hate the lake

** spoiler omitted **

7. Amish people aren't far. Imma have butter you only dreamed of, unless you're captain yesterday.

find grandpas.

Greatest jams and cheeses. Ever.

I'd kill a man for a considerable supply of their cherry vanilla.


Freehold DM wrote:
The Vagrant Erudite wrote:

We pass Jacksonville on the way up to Ohio. After a lot of long internal debate, I decided I'm going to try to visit my ex-wife.

I haven't seen her in almost a year. The very thought of seeing her face-to-face...dude, emotions. Like so many. I miss her like a piece of my very soul was ripped out.

(We divorced 'cause I have lots of mental disorders, she was constantly sad taking care of me, and I didn't want her to hurt. In a manic assurance to myself that I was helping her, I pushed the divorce through quickly to make it hurt less for me. She had brought it up 2x in the past, and when she said she was still sad, even when I was working at the post office, and seeing group therapy and stuff...I just felt like I could never make her happy, and I really...just all I wanted, you know? I love my girlfriend, but...it's the difference between shooting a bullet and throwing one in potency. The saddest part is I know if she'd take me back, there's a 9/10 chance I'd work my ass off towards it.)

So Monday I'm stopping for lunch with her. My girlfriend is going to take the dogs and give us some privacy. I'm not gonna do anything. It's just...I'm moving to Ohio and I don't know when I'll see her again.

So, as nervous as I am for moving, and I really am (I hate uncertainty), and as scared as I am for a 15 hour drive, and as bubbling as my insides are at the thought that I won't know anyone personally except through my girlfriend's family for hundreds of miles away....that one lunch beats it all combined.

Is that f!*+ed up? It feels seriously f&&!ed up.

are you sure this is wise?

Not entirely. But she's still my best friend. And it may be years before I see her again, frankly. I don't know.

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Freehold DM wrote:
Just a Mort wrote:
Childbirth without an epidural is barbaric! For God's sake we're in the 21st century!
not every woman wants an epidural.

My ex boss is fairly tough - goes for kick boxing, yoga, scuba diving, and all that and that bit about non epidural didn't work out very well. But I'll say that she was pregnant at a rather late age, and that makes a LOT of difference. Even my mom is telling me to take an epidural.

And so far my colleagues who got pregnant have gone for it and are happier for that.


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We have a new neighbor down the street, yesterday while I was walking the dog I noticed they were peaking through the blinds at us, so I smiled and waved.

Today they have homemade crosses on every window.


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Freehold DM wrote:
NobodysHome wrote:

Welcome to U.S. Health Care -- any anaesthetic costs money, so insurers deny all such claims:

  • Impus Minor's surgery to screw his elbow back together after he broke his arm: Surgery approved, anaesthetic denied
  • NobodysWife's surgery to remove her gall bladder: Surgery approved, anaesthetic denied

  • As I said upthread, the people who make such decisions should spend their lives undergoing ALL medical treatments sans anaesthesia.

    As it is, if anaesthesia IS medically necessary, they deny it and you get to fight to get it paid for. If it's considered a "luxury"; for example, for childbirth or TS's treatment, they won't offer it, and if you ask for it, they may or may not pay for it.

    Whee?

    something sounds off here. You need anesthetic for those procedures. As awesome as your wife and son are, I dont see them calmly relaxing while someone slices into them. Was there local anesthetic?

    Not quite what I meant: The hospital provided the necessary anaesthetic for both procedures, then the insurance company attempted to refuse to pay for it, claiming it had been "optional" in both cases.

    Yes, I won both times and got reimbursed, but having to fight for anaesthetic is just wrong.

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    captain yesterday wrote:

    We have a new neighbor down the street, yesterday while I was walking the dog I noticed they were peaking through the blinds at us, so I smiled and waved.

    Today they have homemade crosses on every window.

    Maybe they are just super pious? ;)


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    This is the Midwest, so most likely batshit crazy.


    The Vagrant Erudite wrote:
    Freehold DM wrote:
    captain yesterday wrote:

    Yup, helps having a high pain tolerance and exercise is super helpful.

    She walked up Queen Anne hill every day when she was pregnant with Crookshanks, and then had to walk two miles every day during her Tiny T-Rex pregnancy.

    Edit: Also, we're weird that way, so results will vary.

    Damn.

    Please allow me to have children by your wife. Our get will be powerful and smart.

    Cap seems like a really laid back guy, but I think you just asked for permission to bang his wife, and I'm pretty sure even he isn't gonna be cool with that. His family is the only thing I've ever seen him type excitedly about and with passion.

    All I'm saying is if a guy who looks like Eddie Vedder drives up to your building with a crowbar in hand, you call the cops.

    EDIT - Note, it is different than the crowbar I currently have in hand, being nekkid.

    hey, my post didnt post!

    I had a hilarious comment about artificial insemination and borrowing eggs but now i can't remember it. So...something something snu-snu chambers.


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    Got through yesterday. My mom’s birthday falls about a month after her death anniversary, so naturally it’s her birthday when I fall apart. Every dang year. It’s been 11 years now. She would have been 67 yesterday.

    And then I come on here to catch up on the thread and.... f*#*. Because I really wanted to spend my day dealing with ptsd flashbacks.... so. much. fun. :/
    Guys, for what feels to me like the bajillionth time, although it’s probably only the second or third I’ve outright asked, if you’re going to discuss anaesthesia and childbirth, can you please put it behind a spoiler or at least put a content warning at the beginning of the post so I know to skip it if I’m not in a good place to process that stuff? I know it may seem annoying to you, but please do it anyways. Because I’m really tired of getting ambushed by stuff that leaves me curled up and shaking as I try once again to convince my screwed up brain that those are old memories that are not actually happening right now.

    “for those who missed it the last time I told this story, describes medical procedure”:
    I had a c-section when the kiddo was born. He was breach, so it was standard procedure. Everything was expected to go normally. They chose to do a spinal instead of an epidural because they expected a short uncomplicated procedure. I have a genetic disorder they didn’t know about that effects how my body processes anesthetic. So even if the anesthesiologist hadn’t made a mistake and put the spinal in too low so that it only numbed my legs, there would likely have been some problems. I can tell you that the OR was cold, that the lights were dim except over the operating table, how the paper cap over my hair irritated the skin around my face, how the knife tickled when they cut into me, how the music stopped after the screaming started, and all the joking turned dead serious as the team realized that this wasn’t a routine procedure (not because I could feel everything, because I have a uterine deformation. Long, complicated operation because of that), the doctors arguing because they couldn’t put me under because my blood pressure was already too low, the feeling of being outside my body because there was too much pain for me to process, how annoyed I felt that I couldn’t stop screaming because I couldn’t actually control my body at all at that point, one of the doctors yelling at a nurse to hurry up with that blood, the feeling of relief when I finally heard my baby cry because it meant for sure at least one of us was gonna make it....I left out a bunch, too, because it’s hard to find the right words to describe the smells and also because I need to just stop being there now. It never stops. I think I’m past it, that I’ve done enough therapy, and then something happens and I’m back in it. It’s like part of me is stuck in that moment of time. That’s how ptsd works.


    Damn. I'm sorry lynora. I'll flag the posts for spoilering.


    So sorry! I'll try not to let it happen again! My apologies!


    Reasons NobodysHome Never Thought He'd Return a Toaster:
    - Because it's so loud it wakes up everyone in the house.

    Seriously? Who thought that putting an alarm on a toaster was even a good idea? Much less a very LOUD alarm that you can't turn off.

    And I'm sorry, Lynora. I obviously started it with my response to TS's post, so I'll be very wary about such things from here on out.


    Sorry Lynora, that's awful!

    For NH:

    Spoiler:
    I actually have an unpaid anesthesia bill; how did you successfully fight your insurance to get yours covered?


    After having to start over three more times, I finally beat Groddo, pinged the Whisperer to death with Arcane Missiles thanks to my -1 spell cost, and have finally made it to Infinite Toki!

    I am terrified.


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    Freehold DM wrote:
    The Vagrant Erudite wrote:
    Freehold DM wrote:
    captain yesterday wrote:

    Yup, helps having a high pain tolerance and exercise is super helpful.

    She walked up Queen Anne hill every day when she was pregnant with Crookshanks, and then had to walk two miles every day during her Tiny T-Rex pregnancy.

    Edit: Also, we're weird that way, so results will vary.

    Damn.

    Please allow me to have children by your wife. Our get will be powerful and smart.

    Cap seems like a really laid back guy, but I think you just asked for permission to bang his wife, and I'm pretty sure even he isn't gonna be cool with that. His family is the only thing I've ever seen him type excitedly about and with passion.

    All I'm saying is if a guy who looks like Eddie Vedder drives up to your building with a crowbar in hand, you call the cops.

    EDIT - Note, it is different than the crowbar I currently have in hand, being nekkid.

    hey, my post didnt post!

    I had a hilarious comment about artificial insemination and borrowing eggs but now i can't remember it. So...something something snu-snu chambers.

    Tbh, not really sure how that's less creepy...


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    Tequila Sunrise wrote:

    Sorry Lynora, that's awful!

    For NH:
    ** spoiler omitted **

    I was going to PM you, but realized it's more of a PSA announcement.

    Keeping it spoilered:

    The key was to use the hospital. I'd call the hospital and say, "So, the insurance company says this wasn't necessary, but you didn't even give me the option of not doing it. So they want to know xxx, yyy, and zzz; what forms do I have to fill out for you so that you can send them that information?"

    Basically, insurance is usually denied because the insurance company claims something was unnecessary. Just hinting at the hospital that you don't recall requesting any optional procedures is usually enough for them to say, "That's all balderdash and nonsense! Of course it was necessary!"

    Because really, no matter what you sign when you're admitted, the bottom line is that you're signing up to submit yourself to, "Whatever treatment the doctor deems necessary."
    That necessary can get really, really ugly for the doctor if the insurance company is trying to charge you $5000 for something it says wasn't necessary, but that the doctor said was.


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    On a different note, it's Crookshanks first homecoming dance tonight.

    Don't really care for her date but whatever I'll just show him my hammers, saws, chisels, and pictures of incredibly deep trenches and holes I've dug.


    American Horror Story Cult is good, but very predictable so far.


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    Scintillae wrote:
    Freehold DM wrote:
    The Vagrant Erudite wrote:
    Freehold DM wrote:
    captain yesterday wrote:

    Yup, helps having a high pain tolerance and exercise is super helpful.

    She walked up Queen Anne hill every day when she was pregnant with Crookshanks, and then had to walk two miles every day during her Tiny T-Rex pregnancy.

    Edit: Also, we're weird that way, so results will vary.

    Damn.

    Please allow me to have children by your wife. Our get will be powerful and smart.

    Cap seems like a really laid back guy, but I think you just asked for permission to bang his wife, and I'm pretty sure even he isn't gonna be cool with that. His family is the only thing I've ever seen him type excitedly about and with passion.

    All I'm saying is if a guy who looks like Eddie Vedder drives up to your building with a crowbar in hand, you call the cops.

    EDIT - Note, it is different than the crowbar I currently have in hand, being nekkid.

    hey, my post didnt post!

    I had a hilarious comment about artificial insemination and borrowing eggs but now i can't remember it. So...something something snu-snu chambers.

    Tbh, not really sure how that's less creepy...

    it was a loooooong futurama related post. I cant remember. I wasn't trying to be creepy.


    captain yesterday wrote:
    American Horror Story Cult is good, but very predictable so far.

    arent we up to apocalypse?


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    They opened up a seasonal Halloween-Toy store at the old Toys R Us (it's literally called The Halloween-Toy Store).

    The General suggested we call it Toys R Husk, after Zombie Toys R Us was deemed too cool sounding by the kids.


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    captain yesterday wrote:

    On a different note, it's Crookshanks first homecoming dance tonight.

    Don't really care for her date but whatever I'll just show him my hammers, saws, chisels, and pictures of incredibly deep trenches and holes I've dug.

    show him your books on anatomy.


    Just a Mort wrote:

    Listening to a whole lot of manowar. So far if I am running with music, I usually use Linkin Park. I wonder if Manowar would work.

    Yes I'm a metal fan. Metal kitty?

    *Nuzzles Cover Turtle*

    *Return nuzzles Mort while nodding approvingly of 'Metal Kitty'*


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    Rules questions everyone should have to answer.

    "In Pathfinder, is it possible to be a Weretornado?" - Tiny T-Rex, trying to make a character.


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    "I'm going to tell everyone I'm a ninja! I'm just going to walk down the street and pull off my mask and say 'yo, I'm a ninja!', to everyone!" - Tiny T-Rex, forgoing subtlety altogether.

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    Sorry Lynora. The whole thing was my fault because I started it. Going to switch topic.

    If you wanted a weretornado, then you'd need to let him play as an air elemental then contract Lycanthrophy

    Ok, elementals are not immune to disease and curse which Lycanthrophy falls under so it is technically possible.

    But again I think Lycanthtrophy is a bit too powerful for a player, and lets assume that the campaign progresses quickly and you get access to a 12th level cleric fast. So at low levels you essentially get 5 DR/silver, which is very helpful, then at high levels, when it comes to your character being uncontrollable, you don't get the drawbacks.

    Which is pretty much meh. I am a firm believer of equity, if you want a benefit you should pay the price.

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    Tequila Sunrise wrote:

    After having to start over three more times, I finally beat Groddo, pinged the Whisperer to death with Arcane Missiles thanks to my -1 spell cost, and have finally made it to Infinite Toki!

    I am terrified.

    Infinite Toki honestly isn't a hard boss to fight. Sure she gets some cheaty stuff but that was a boss I cleared on the first try.

    If you want really undignified deaths, try Tess's hero power at reduced cost, and then I killed the whisperer on the first turn with echoed tiny rocks.


    Just a Mort wrote:
    Tequila Sunrise wrote:

    After having to start over three more times, I finally beat Groddo, pinged the Whisperer to death with Arcane Missiles thanks to my -1 spell cost, and have finally made it to Infinite Toki!

    I am terrified.

    Infinite Toki honestly isn't a hard boss to fight. Sure she gets some cheaty stuff but that was a boss I cleared on the first try.

    Aaaaaaaand...fail!

    I was doing so well until she reset the game, then I couldn't keep her minions off the board and she ended up clobbering me with some 10-attack monstrosity. Grrr, I give up. Would you beat her for me when you visit next month? Pretty please, I'll bake cookies for you. Or something!


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    Thanks for being so understanding y’all <3

    NH, what brand of toaster? Because I have this annoying habit of walking away and forgetting I made toast, so that alarm function has some appeal.... :P


    So first day back and I have a famous musician coming in tonight. he has quite the entourage with him as well. They are not here yet but they have a pretty large block saved for them.


    So whose going to be playing kingmaker? (MMORPG not the module.)

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    I think I killed her before she reset the game or something. Or soon after. I dunno, you know I'm all about face =P

    Grand Lodge

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    I may play Kingmaker eventually. I think I'd want to get through the AP first.


    Well if they have servers and people are playing we need to coordinate a Paizo server for the FAWTL folks.


    No interest in Kingmaker myself.

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    Chocolate chip cake!

    Let's hope it doesn't turn out too dry this time.


    That looks yummy.

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    Since I was a nub who missed her morning body combat session for remembering it as 10.30 instead of 10.00 am, I am going to kick myself out of the house later for a 3.6 mile run.


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    Body combat session is an odd euphemism... I need to stop freehold is rubbing off on me.

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    I did Toki and got to the final boss - folorn lovers that got me. I think the first time you get to fight infinite toki, after that it's random.


    Well some of the band crew is here. its kind of confusing and a little funny. They just rolled a treadmill into one of the rooms. really nice looking one.


    Oh and now one of those exercise bikes that don't go anywhere.

    Its funny we have all that stuff in our gym already but hey nothing like having your own I guess.


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    His crew so far has been top notch barely made a sound. Pretty friendly too.

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    Example of a body combat class - so you don't misunderstand.

    Mind you the video is 60 min long so unless you wanted to exercise...you probably don't need to watch the whole of it.

    I guess if you're doing it competitively you'd want to get your own gear. Or maybe they went to a place that didn't have a gym/gym facilities weren't good.

    Finished running. For some weird reason the trip to the next station always takes longer then the trip back. I think subconsciously I'm reserving energy for the return trip. But on the trip back I sort of put myself on a faster pace. And I still took a break at the half way mark. I really should try to kick myself of the habit of doing that.

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