Things in Life That Suck

[Emperor7]

The Jade wrote:

Guy Humual wrote:

My Grandfather is in the hospital and might not be getting out. He's dieing and right now the doctors don't know why. His liver is shutting down, his kidneys are shutting down, and he just seems to get weaker and weaker. There's still the hope that they might find out what's wrong and he'll pull through but I confess there's not much hope right now.

This is a tough time of year to be in the hospital. This is a tough time of year to be dieing.

I'm really sorry, Guy.

+

Hopes and prayers for your grandfather, you, and your family.

[Mairkurion {tm}]

Guy: Very sorry.

Spoiler:

My mom died on a Dec 8, so I know exactly what you mean.

[Charles Evans 25]

My condolences, Bitter Thorn, Guy, Mairkurion.

[feytharn]

Bitter Thorn wrote:

Thanks for the kind words guys.

Sorry for your loss, Bitter Thorn.

[feytharn]

The Jade wrote:

Guy Humual wrote:

My Grandfather is in the hospital and might not be getting out. He's dieing and right now the doctors don't know why. His liver is shutting down, his kidneys are shutting down, and he just seems to get weaker and weaker. There's still the hope that they might find out what's wrong and he'll pull through but I confess there's not much hope right now.

This is a tough time of year to be in the hospital. This is a tough time of year to be dieing.

I'm really sorry, Guy.

All the best for you, your Grandfather and your family.

[Aberzombie]

Mairkurion {tm} wrote:

Guy: Very sorry.

** spoiler omitted **

AACH! Mairkurion, I totally missed that! My condolences, to you and to everyone else!

[Sieglord]

Life's a bowl of bagel-dogs, but there are unpleasantries...cold toilet seats, dentist chairs, and trips to the DMV. Call it...pointless.

(Cool people get that...and get why it sucks. Everyone else can go sail the seas of cheese.)

[GentleGiant]

Getting a throat infection/Pharyngitis, then a couple of days later I have pneumonia on top of it.
Great, why not make it a trifecta? How about small pox? Or the bubonic plague?
Actually, I have flu symptoms too, but don't know if it's just a side effect from the above ailments...

Just in time for the holidays! Wohoo! :-/

[Guy Humual]

Thanks for the kind words everyone.

I just got word that my Grandfather passed. He was 89 years old.

[Freehold DM]

Guy Humual wrote:

Thanks for the kind words everyone.

I just got word that my Grandfather passed. He was 89 years old.

My deepest condolences, Guy. May he continue to watch over you and your family as ever.

[martinaj]

Vacuum cleaner attachments.

[therealthom]

Guy Humual wrote:

Thanks for the kind words everyone.

I just got word that my Grandfather passed. He was 89 years old.

Guy, sorry to hear about your Grandfather. That's hard.

Bitter Thorn, also sorry to hear about your friend.

Mairkurion, that one may be hardest of all. Good luck.

[Charles Evans 25]

Guy Humual wrote:

Thanks for the kind words everyone.

I just got word that my Grandfather passed. He was 89 years old.

Ack. :(

[Emperor7]

Guy Humual wrote:

Thanks for the kind words everyone.

I just got word that my Grandfather passed. He was 89 years old.

Condolences, Guy.

[lynora]

I'm sorry for your loss, Guy.

[Bitter Thorn]

Emperor7 wrote:

Guy Humual wrote:

Thanks for the kind words everyone.

I just got word that my Grandfather passed. He was 89 years old.

Condolences, Guy.

Condolences +1, we are loosing the greatest generation.

[Crimson Jester]

My wife's Grandpa passed away. He was in his 70's.

[James Keegan]

My condolonces Guy, BT, Jester, Maikurion. Very sorry for your loss.

[Sharoth]

James Keegan wrote:

My condolonces Guy, BT, Jester, Maikurion. Very sorry for your loss.

Same here. My thoughts are with you.

[messy]

when i woke up this morning, the water in my home seemed to have been turned off.

after some investigation, i found that the pipes had frozen.

after about four hours of work, phone calls, and panic, the water came back on.

i seem to have avoided the disaster of burst pipes, but wow, what a way to spend a saturday morning.

[Charles Evans 25]

Crimson Jester wrote:

My wife's Grandpa passed away. He was in his 70's.

Just before Christmas. That's rough.

:(

[Ross Byers]

TPK in the lunchtime Gamma World game.

[Cuchulainn]

Ross Byers wrote:

TPK in the lunchtime Gamma World game.

I want to work somewhere that has a lunchtime GAMMA WORLD game. :(

[Aaron Bitman]

Cuchulainn wrote:

I want to work somewhere that has a lunchtime GAMMA WORLD game. :(

Yeah, or any RPG. I haven't had a lunchtime RPG going since high school, over 20 years ago.

(Although, back in the late 1990s, I DID get to play M:tG with people from a couple of companies in our building during lunch every day.)

[Freehold DM]

Aaron Bitman wrote:

Cuchulainn wrote:

I want to work somewhere that has a lunchtime GAMMA WORLD game. :(

Yeah, or any RPG. I haven't had a lunchtime RPG going since high school, over 20 years ago.

(Although, back in the late 1990s, I DID get to play M:tG with people from a couple of companies in our building during lunch every day.)

fistbump

I do miss gaming over lunch.

[Bill Lumberg]

More snow is expected and I had neglected to buy a snow-blower.

[Bitter Thorn]

Kelly would have been 44 today. RIP love; you are still missed five and a half years later. See you soon.

Cancer Sucks

[Freehold DM]

Bitter Thorn wrote:

Kelly would have been 44 today. RIP love; you are still missed five and a half years later. See you soon.

Cancer Sucks

I'm sorry man.

[Sharoth]

Freehold DM wrote:

Bitter Thorn wrote:

Kelly would have been 44 today. RIP love; you are still missed five and a half years later. See you soon.

Cancer Sucks

I'm sorry man.

+1.

[Guy Humual]

Bitter Thorn wrote:

Kelly would have been 44 today. RIP love; you are still missed five and a half years later. See you soon.

Cancer Sucks

Life is hard, outliving a loved one is harder, but she's at peace and without a doubt wants to see you live on.

[Emperor7]

Freehold DM wrote:

Bitter Thorn wrote:

Kelly would have been 44 today. RIP love; you are still missed five and a half years later. See you soon.

Cancer Sucks

I'm sorry man.

+1

[Bitter Thorn]

Guy Humual wrote:

Bitter Thorn wrote:

Kelly would have been 44 today. RIP love; you are still missed five and a half years later. See you soon.

Cancer Sucks

Life is hard, outliving a loved one is harder, but she's at peace and without a doubt wants to see you live on.

Indeed.

Some days are harder than others.

Thanks guys.

EDIT: It's no walk in the park to bury your wife in your thirties, but it sucks beyond words to bury ones daughter, sister, or Mom. I'm proud of how our daughter turned out.

[Jeremy Mcgillan]

Bitter Thorn wrote:

Guy Humual wrote:

Bitter Thorn wrote:

Kelly would have been 44 today. RIP love; you are still missed five and a half years later. See you soon.

Cancer Sucks

Life is hard, outliving a loved one is harder, but she's at peace and without a doubt wants to see you live on.

Indeed.

Some days are harder than others.

Thanks guys.

EDIT: It's no walk in the park to bury your wife in your thirties, but it sucks beyond words to bury ones daughter, sister, or Mom. I'm proud of how our daughter turned out.

So sorry for your loss BT.

[Bitter Thorn]

Jeremy Mcgillan wrote:

Bitter Thorn wrote:

Guy Humual wrote:

Bitter Thorn wrote:

Kelly would have been 44 today. RIP love; you are still missed five and a half years later. See you soon.

Cancer Sucks

Life is hard, outliving a loved one is harder, but she's at peace and without a doubt wants to see you live on.

Indeed.

Some days are harder than others.

Thanks guys.

EDIT: It's no walk in the park to bury your wife in your thirties, but it sucks beyond words to bury ones daughter, sister, or Mom. I'm proud of how our daughter turned out.

So sorry for your loss BT.

Thanks Jeremy.

It's been a rough few years. I've lost my wife, my mom, friends to suicide, a drunk driver, heart failure, and more.

I have friends dealing with schizophrenia, cancer, Crohn's disease, Alzheimer's, brain damage, dementia, brain tumors, attempted murder, coming home from Afghanistan with serious gunshot wounds, getting run over by a truck, divorce, unemployment, custody battles, drug addiction, dying parents, post traumatic stress, deployment overseas, and god knows what else.

I wouldn't trade my friends and family for the world, but I am utterly exhausted. I've led an interesting life, but I am reminded of the old Chinese curse, "May you live in interesting times.".

No one ever said it would be easy.

I'm just so damned tired.

[Emperor7]

Bitter Thorn wrote:

Jeremy Mcgillan wrote:

Bitter Thorn wrote:

Guy Humual wrote:

Bitter Thorn wrote:

Kelly would have been 44 today. RIP love; you are still missed five and a half years later. See you soon.

Cancer Sucks

Life is hard, outliving a loved one is harder, but she's at peace and without a doubt wants to see you live on.

Indeed.

Some days are harder than others.

Thanks guys.

EDIT: It's no walk in the park to bury your wife in your thirties, but it sucks beyond words to bury ones daughter, sister, or Mom. I'm proud of how our daughter turned out.

So sorry for your loss BT.

Thanks Jeremy.

It's been a rough few years. I've lost my wife, my mom, friends to suicide, a drunk driver, heart failure, and more.

I have friends dealing with schizophrenia, cancer, Crohn's disease, Alzheimer's, brain damage, dementia, brain tumors, attempted murder, coming home from Afghanistan with serious gunshot wounds, getting run over by a truck, divorce, unemployment, custody battles, drug addiction, dying parents, post traumatic stress, deployment overseas, and god knows what else.

I wouldn't trade my friends and family for the world, but I am utterly exhausted. I've led an interesting life, but I am reminded of the old Chinese curse, "May you live in interesting times.".

No one ever said it would be easy.

I'm just so damned tired.

Not to be trite but it sounds like the depth of your pain is measured by the depth of your love. I wish you strength to match your love.

[feytharn]

Bitter Thorn wrote:

Guy Humual wrote:

Bitter Thorn wrote:

Kelly would have been 44 today. RIP love; you are still missed five and a half years later. See you soon.

Cancer Sucks

Life is hard, outliving a loved one is harder, but she's at peace and without a doubt wants to see you live on.

Indeed.

Some days are harder than others.

Thanks guys.

EDIT: It's no walk in the park to bury your wife in your thirties, but it sucks beyond words to bury ones daughter, sister, or Mom. I'm proud of how our daughter turned out.

Words can't really tell of such a loss.

I just hope that, for you and your daughter that year by year the better days become the overwhelming majority and that the memory of her love outshines the sorrow of her loss.
Georg.

[Bitter Thorn]

Thank you guys. I really do appreciate it.

[GeminiG]

Arctaris wrote:

Thats right. This is the evil twin of the 'Good Things' thread. This a place to post all those things that don't make for full-sized rants but still bug you. Because, in life there's always something that sucks right?

For instance,
For some unknown reason my computer has stopped letting me use Winamp and every time I try to play music with it it gives me an error message.
I've ordered several books that I wanted for an upcoming campaign but they've still not arrived and the campaign nears (I suppose this is what I get for not springing for the expedieted shipping).
At work today I spilled mustard all over my hands (again) so for the afternoon I smelled like mustard.

People who say they are your friend and then they totaly disrespect and treat you like crap

[Freehold DM]

Too many things to count right now.

[Bitter Thorn]

Freehold DM wrote:

Too many things to count right now.

I hope they suck less in short order.

[The Eldritch Mr. Shiny]

Today, I'm just sick of s!!+. It's the third day in a row that I've busted my knuckles open punching walls. I scared the s&@+ out of some girl who came to see what the noise was and ask if I was alright. Therapy is not helping, though I just joined an online anxiety support group, but there is no F$$&ING WAY I am going back on the drugs again. I'm really stuck.

[Mairkurion {tm}]

Very sorry, EMS.

[Garydee]

The Eldritch Mr. Shiny wrote:

It's the third day in a row that I've busted my knuckles open punching walls.

Please stop doing that. Many, many years ago I broke(more like shattered) my right hand doing that exact same thing. Not exactly a shining moment of brilliance on my part.

[Sharoth]

David, I do hope that things go better for you. You are a good man, a good friend, and you have a lot to offer this world.

[messy]

The Eldritch Mr. Shiny wrote:

Today, I'm just sick of s!%#. It's the third day in a row that I've busted my knuckles open punching walls. I scared the s!%# out of some girl who came to see what the noise was and ask if I was alright. Therapy is not helping, though I just joined an online anxiety support group, but there is no f~@@ING WAY I am going back on the drugs again. I'm really stuck.

there are better ways of getting your stress out -- exercise, go for a walk, talk to someone (even if it doesn't seem like it's helping it probably is). breaking things can only cost you money in repairs and doctor bills.

and come to the paizo boards more often! we're happy to talk about what's bothering you. :-)

[Lindisty]

I have a cold and the people I supervise are getting on my last nerve today.

I really need a big HERE THERE BE DRAGONS sign to hang on my cubicle door for days like this.

[lynora]

Getting ripped off by a now ex-friend.

Having to desperately scramble to rearrange next week's schedule as a result of this situation.

[lynora]

Today. Today sucks. A lot.

Spoiler:

So even though he's had an amazingly good week except for one incident, the kidlet is suspended tomorrow. On Tuesday he bit his para pro during one of his transition freak outs. They are getting much better and we've gone from up to nine incidents a day to one incident a day, and sometimes even no incidents. But they had just got back from a field trip and he was having a hard time transitioning back to class. The para pro told me what happened when I came to pick the kidlet up from school, and the boy was disciplined then as well as spending time reviewing other strategies for expressing emotions and getting things back on an even keel. Well, apparently the bite was worse than I was told and it did break the skin just a little. Unfortunately that was enough to let it get infected, and as he had to go see a doctor for it the para had to tell the principal what happened. Even though no one thinks it's the right thing since there's such a gap between now and the incident and the kidlet has otherwise done great including having a no incident day today, regulations require that he be suspended for a day. That day should have been today. He wouldn't have missed much. And it was my day off class. Instead he's suspended tomorrow which means he misses show and tell, the one thing he looks forward to all week, so naturally he's devastated since he's being punished twice for the same offense. And just to make things more interesting, I have to miss class tomorrow now too. I have sent an email to the professor basically begging for understanding and that he would at least allow me to do the work at home and stop by to turn it in tomorrow afternoon. Still waiting to hear back.

[Freehold DM]

lynora wrote:

Today. Today sucks. A lot.

** spoiler omitted **

UGH!! I'm sorry Lynora, that's just awful.

[lynora]

Freehold DM wrote:

lynora wrote:

Today. Today sucks. A lot.

** spoiler omitted **

UGH!! I'm sorry Lynora, that's just awful.

Yes. It is. Thanks for the sympathy though.

I'm sure I'll have better perspective on all of this later, but right now I just want to cry. :(