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The hardest HARDEST habit to break (and I still do it from time to time) was changing from "how's it going guys?" to "how's it going, folks?".
Eh, "guys" as a collective has been somewhat neutered over time. I can't see many people getting upset over it. Of course, there can be regional differences as well on things like that.

FanaticRat |
Tirisfal wrote:The hardest HARDEST habit to break (and I still do it from time to time) was changing from "how's it going guys?" to "how's it going, folks?".Eh, "guys" as a collective has been somewhat neutered over time. I can't see many people getting upset over it. Of course, there can be regional differences as well on things like that.
I have a trans friend who gets pissed off at me when I say it, even though I use it gender neutrally. Same with bro and dude, which I have a real bad habit of using for all of my friends. I'm trying to watch it, but if I'm being completely honest I usually just go with those terms unless I know I'm talking to someone who will be offended by them.
Just the way it goes I guess.

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Lilith wrote:I've never gotten a manicure. I don't want to work with one. Those were press on nails. I think I'm going to buy a bunch of them.lynora wrote:It really is very flattering and I'm happy that you had a great time! Also super-loving the nails (my birthday manicure is thrashed from moving—sigh)!Bob, love the pics. That dress is super flattering on you. Really glad you had a good time.:)
Mine was just a scrub, buff, polish, and paint—nothing terribly fancy. But I did feel tremendously girly. :D

Bob_Loblaw |

Bob_Loblaw wrote:Mine was just a scrub, buff, polish, and paint—nothing terribly fancy. But I did feel tremendously girly. :DLilith wrote:I've never gotten a manicure. I don't want to work with one. Those were press on nails. I think I'm going to buy a bunch of them.lynora wrote:It really is very flattering and I'm happy that you had a great time! Also super-loving the nails (my birthday manicure is thrashed from moving—sigh)!Bob, love the pics. That dress is super flattering on you. Really glad you had a good time.:)
Because of my job, I wouldn't want to go to work with my nails painted anyway. Even though I can't be fired for it, and I have a feeling that nearly all of my coworkers would be fine with it, I work in a pharmacy with a lot of patients who may not want to tolerate that. Or worse, spend all my time trying to give me pointers. I have too much work to do to be explaining everything to people I've been taking care of for over 10 years. Every person I have to explain it to is 3-4 prescriptions I can get filled.
I will be buying more of the press on nails though. I didn't realize how easy they were and I really did feel pretty. I'm getting a pedicure on Tuesday. I love getting those. Guys, if you've never got one, you should. You don't have to get your toes painted. It really does feel good. I'm now just debating on what color. I have a few days to figure it out. I'm thinking of a dark color because I have some glow in the dark polish I want to put on as well and it looks better on dark colors than light ones.

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Cori is exhausted today. Had a hair appointment at 10 for cut and color and style, an eyebrow appointment at 1, an interview dropped into my lap at 2, appointment to get my makeup done at 3, and a photo shoot at 5. It was a fun day and both the interview and the photo shoot went really well. Tomorrow I'll upload a picture of my finished product before the shoot started.

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I've worked in retail/customer service for over 10 years, and if I'm any kind of unsure, I'm careful not to use any pronouns at all until they or someone they're with does, and it works pretty well for me.
Me too. I was wondering if there was something better.
The hardest HARDEST habit to break (and I still do it from time to time) was changing from "how's it going guys?" to "how's it going, folks?".
Strange. I use 'guys' as a gender neutral term.

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Alright to bring things back happier, here is the picture I promised: All Dolled Up
And here is the interview:
With too many places to be!
And Icyshadow, yes, being gender confused gives you a space within the LGBT spectrum. In fact, while that may not be the case with you, it is where many of us trans* people start. Don't be afraid to be who you need to be and don't let what others say or do to you have an affect on that.

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Icyshadow wrote:
She has her reasons for the cross-dressing. Then again, she hasn't been interested in using magic to swap her gender so there's that.I still wonder how that would work in a high magic world. Would there be prejudice against someone who had access to magic to change their gender but did not? Hm
I get the vibe that she is not trans*, and posing as the member of another gender is more of a business-related decision.

Freehold DM |

Alright to bring things back happier, here is the picture I promised: All Dolled Up
And here is the interview:
With too many places to be!And Icyshadow, yes, being gender confused gives you a space within the LGBT spectrum. In fact, while that may not be the case with you, it is where many of us trans* people start. Don't be afraid to be who you need to be and don't let what others say or do to you have an affect on that.
I clicked on the above link...saw a brief flash of a woman, and then a car. Cori, are you transitioning into a car? Cuz...that would be amazing! GO CYBORG!

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Unfortunately (or perhaps thankfully), Freehold, Cori isn't Utena IRL. :P

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It was alright - a bit obscure but artsy about it - right up until the end. And then... yeahhhh... My face when cars.
Music is awesome as hell though.
Apparently the TV series is great, I haven't gotten around to watching it yet though. (My girlfriend chides me for this quite a bit.)

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Alright to bring things back happier, here is the picture I promised: All Dolled Up
And here is the interview:
With too many places to be!
Can I say that it's awesome that the reporters kept referring to you as a woman? Not all reporters are that professional. Congrats on everything!

Freehold DM |

It was alright - a bit obscure but artsy about it - right up until the end. And then... yeahhhh... My face when cars.
Music is awesome as hell though.
Apparently the TV series is great, I haven't gotten around to watching it yet though. (My girlfriend chides me for this quite a bit.)
the tv series is amazing.