As the question asks, does a sentient wax golem continue to obey its creator without question once it thinks that it is alive? Or does it start treating its creator as the person it looks like would?
I should point out that sentience has not been defined conclusively to preclude obedience. Soulbound dolls and homunculi are both sentient, but both follow orders. I suppose I should have added another choice, namely do they recognize their creator as such at all?