Has anyone in your group ever made you question why you play the game?
One of the players in our group had been having character troubles for a few session. In our last session, after a trying moment of RP, they walked away from the table. We ask the player to come back and they responded that their character wasn't there anymore. We were all stunned and ask what they meant. All the player would say was that their character wasn't there in the morning when the other characters woke up.
Eventualy I got mad and yelled at the player until they came back and told us there was a note in the room they shared with another character. The player gave us 5 seconds of what the note said and walked off again.
The player had just completely abandoned the other players, the game, the narative, and hadn't wanted to even give the rest of the table something to work with. They weren't happy with the character they had made, so they abandoned us after months of weekly gaming sessions.
What really bothered me though, was the remaining players. They acted like we must have done something wrong. They were angry with me for forcing the player to give us closure. No one was mad but me for having been left in the lurch, but I realized they would have been if I had done it. I was the bad guy for being mad about being abandoned, and I still would have been the bad guy if I had done the abandoning.
It's a moment that has made me question why I even bother playing.