This 3.5e disease is pretty funny. I've read some articles on Sex, Romance, and Childbirth in RPGs that were pretty interesting, though I can understand if some people are really uncomfortable with the whole area. Really, that might have something to do with the fact that it puts one in an awkward situation in front of, or even with, the other players sitting around the table. Maybe my cleric should be head over heels in love with that monk, but if that monk is played by my brother... well, Cadderly ain't getting his Danica!
Anyway, how many items push the questionable content boundaries? How many of those generally merit serious consideration? Obviously a special purple pimp hat that grants a bonus to slapping women isn't going anywhere, but does one often see mature items well presented?