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Yuugasa wrote:

GreyWolfLord, I'm not trying to pry but what are the beliefs/sexuality/whatever you have that you face such discrimination for and fear you would be discriminated for here?

I wasn't going to ask but you keep referring to it without spelling it out and now I'm curious!

I'll send you a PM, I'm not comfortable discussing such things on the public forums.


GreyWolfLord wrote:
Yuugasa wrote:

GreyWolfLord, I'm not trying to pry but what are the beliefs/sexuality/whatever you have that you face such discrimination for and fear you would be discriminated for here?

I wasn't going to ask but you keep referring to it without spelling it out and now I'm curious!

I'll send you a PM, I'm not comfortable discussing such things on the public forums.

Ok, thanks. Sorry, I'm not trying to embarrass you, I'm just always curious about people.


Klaus van der Kroft wrote:

Congratulations to all the folk of the fabulous persuasion!

Jaelithe wrote:

I'm a staunch Catholic who can't stand the imposition of my personal and my church's morality on those who don't share it. On sites like this, I'm a screwball theist, and on Catholic websites, I'm one of Satan's middle managers for not upholding the party line. Funny how much is relative, ain't it?

I think the decision is the only one that can be made by those who are not allowing inappropriate influences to sway them. The separation of church and state is, in my opinion, critical to the proper governance of a nation interested in protecting the minority from the will of an oppressive majority.

I'm pretty big on my Catholicism as well and I too agree this is one of the things we cannot in good conscience attempt to enforce in society (I have somewhat of a theological difference on the interpretation of gay marriage, which I think shouldn't constitute a sin under Catholic understanding).

And many other Catholics think the same way. For instance, it was a very Catholic president over here in Chile the one who set up the legal framework for gay marriage to happen (it's still in the Civil Union part, but should be regular marriage within 5 years or so, depending on legislative clockwork).

My hope is that this change in the US helps with two things: The key one which is the dignifying of human beings that happen to be gay, and the secondary, but very important for me at least, which is to help Catholics in particular and Christians in general (as there are some denominations that have already fixed that) finally understand that the usual "gay is evil" rhetoric goes against the very fundamentals of our religion.

While I know enough to know the Catholic Church has never actually thought gays were evil, just disordered, I've been wondering recently if there can ever be any real acceptance of homosexuality within the Catholic Church.

The problem as I see it is that homosexual behavior is a sin and so there is no way for homosexuals to have romantic relationships or be married in the Church. They can be celibate and in the Church but for many love and family is too important for them to live without a partner their whole life without suffering terribly. I don't really see a solution to the problem beyond gay Catholics either making great sacrifices for their faith or choosing to live in a state of mortal sin.

May I ask what is your theological idea of why gay marriage shouldn't be a sin? How can homosexual love be accepted into the Church? I would be very excited to know.


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Ultimately the religious bakers and florists should probably get out of the wedding business if that is too big of problem for them. They can always sell "tiered cakes" and not "wedding cakes" and "party arrangements" and not "wedding arrangements".


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Something occurred to me the other day when I was reading (of all things, an MRA rant):

When a group is accustomed to being in power, equality feels like oppression.


Man, I think taxes are immoral.

Think I'm just gonna stop paying 'em.

This is both 100% within my rights and it would be wrong for me to suffer any legal consequences whatsoever.


Rynjin wrote:

Man, I think taxes are immoral.

Think I'm just gonna stop paying 'em.

This is both 100% within my rights and it would be wrong for me to suffer any legal consequences whatsoever.

Hey, we agree on something!

Though I probably wouldn't just stop paying them.

You could join the clergy though...that's one way in the US (I believe, not a member myself, but that's what I've heard) to not pay taxes!


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That is not a reflection of my actual views, merely an absurd example of how you can claim anything is immoral to you in order to try and avoid doing something you don't want to do.

I personally don't mind paying taxes. They're necessary, and I generally get back most of what I put in anyway.


Rynjin wrote:

That is not a reflection of my actual views, merely an absurd example of how you can claim anything is immoral to you in order to try and avoid doing something you don't want to do.

I personally don't mind paying taxes. They're necessary, and I generally get back most of what I put in anyway.

And there are real people who actually believe what you said sarcastically, and actually do stop paying, and will even go to court over it. And then they'll say that income tax is slavery, so they don't have to pay because of the 13th Amendment. In tax court.

They never win with claims like that, but they can sure as hell waste the government's (and their) time.

As usual, a person who claims they are morally opposed to a given law is not exempt from that law.


137ben wrote:
Rynjin wrote:

That is not a reflection of my actual views, merely an absurd example of how you can claim anything is immoral to you in order to try and avoid doing something you don't want to do.

I personally don't mind paying taxes. They're necessary, and I generally get back most of what I put in anyway.

And there are real people who actually believe what you said sarcastically, and actually do stop paying, and will even go to court over it. And then they'll say that income tax is slavery, so they don't have to pay because of the 13th Amendment. In tax court.

They never win with claims like that, but they can sure as hell waste the government's (and their) time.

As usual, a person who claims they are morally opposed to a given law is not exempt from that law.

Better than the folks who claim that the taxes are only applicable to their legal fiction identity, which is their birth certificate, and because their name is spelled in capital letters, also not them. Then try to use navel law to claim themselves lost at sea, or take over court proceedings.


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Scythia wrote:
navel law

Is this where they define the difference between inies and outies?

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GreyWolfLord wrote:
Lord Snow wrote:
3) Israel being a really lousy country - it is, though in more complicated ways than most people believe. It is very possible to be judgmental of one's own country. Even recommended, in cases like mine. Specifically, for example, the whole marriage thing is one of the most blatant example of wrongness in Israel. the one and only authority on marriage law is the Orthodox religion institute. That means it is not only homophobic, it is also racist (non Jews may not marry Jews) and sexist (the religious institute also handles divorces, which opens the door to a host of ugly discrimination against women that would have been more in place say 3000 years ago than today). But - let us leave this subject at this. The last thing the thread needs is a derail into Israel-territory.

Actually for you, I think that should be the forefront of conversation. Why is it good to discuss inequality in other nations when it is much worse in your own. Shouldn't you then be discussing and pushing the problems of things much closer to home and which affect you directly than that of places on the other side of the world.

Not that I think it's bad, I enjoy your contributions, but I think the conditions in Israel would also be something at the forefront in your own discussions of equality and justice?

Right now the closest hospital to me is 15 minutes away. I believe I broke my arm two days ago. The closest hospital I trust is an hour and a half away currently, and the one which I trust with my medical records is probably 3 hours away. This is a current problem I'm facing...but it pales to what I think I might have to deal with in the Nation of Israel. What actions are you doing to ensure equality in your own nation?

Edit: On that note, perhaps I'll be taking a trip soon and get treatment, which probably means much to everyone's relief, I'll be absent from the forums for a little bit.

Well, first off I'm not entirely a stranger to the U.S - I was born there and have a citizenship, and if I am ever to leave my country (which I am planning to do as soon as I'm able) the U.S is the most likely place I'll end up. I know the language, am relatively familiar with the culture and have that ever important citizenship.

Secondly, the US is in many ways the only superpower in the world right now. Things that happen there matter to everyone to some degree.
Thirdly, me being active on this forum is not mutually exclusive to me being active in other places as well. In personal conversations and in some degree through social media I am promoting my ideas in Israel (even sent a latter to a newspaper once, which I don't think they've done anything with). The problem is that things are so seriously bad in regards to marriage law here that legalizing same-sex marriage seems impossible. The religious types in control of that situation are very strongly opposed. Just imagine letting letting the Amish get exclusive rights to decide who can marry whom and you'll have roughly the correct idea in mind. And unlike the U.S where the democratic party came to support gay rights in recent years, the majority of political power in Israel does not. That majority has been in power for a decade now and no reasonable opposition is forming.

But... I'm not sure exactly what the situation is with you that actually makes you terrified of going to a hospital nearby... but one thing Israel is light years ahead of the US on is public health and equal treatment in hospitals. I've never heard of anyone being denied service for anything, and the doctors and nurses are somehow very diverse - all the different tribes of Arab and Jews, men and women working together peacefully in service of something noble. I daresay that regardless of your identity, you would have received fair treatment in any Israeli hospital.


BigDTBone wrote:
Scythia wrote:
navel law
Is this where they define the difference between inies and outies?

That's where they say that they live inside a nose, and therefore the IRS can't investigate them. The IRS plans to investigate them to determine whether they actually live in a nose. The person claims that due to saying they live in a nose, they cannot be investigated to determine whether they actually live in a nose, and that since they might live in a nose, they cannot be investigated to determine if they have paid taxes.

One of my close relatives (who is a U.S. attorney) had a case almost exactly like that, except that 'nose' was replaced by 'Virgin Islands'.

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I find that hilarious because that's saying the IRS can't investigate him because he lives in Britain. I'm assuming the British Virgin Islands here, since the other two sets are US territory. Which would, admittedly, be funnier.


BigDTBone wrote:
Scythia wrote:
navel law
Is this where they define the difference between inies and outies?

It's the difference between keyboard and cellphone typing. :P


GreyWolfLord wrote:


You could join the clergy though...that's one way in the US (I believe, not a member myself, but that's what I've heard) to not pay taxes!

I think religious institutions can be considered tax exempt, not individuals. There are plenty of cases of evangelists and religious folks who have tried to hide personal fortunes as "church property", only to end up in jail for tax fraud.

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Temporarily locking to sift through posts.

EDIT: I've got back and removed some posts and replies to them/quoting them. Conflating any issue relevant to the original topic with a terrorist organization is completely out of place and baiting. Also, do not attack others in the conversation. If there's a point brought up that you disagree with, assert the idea and debate that, not the other person.


Krensky wrote:
I find that hilarious because that's saying the IRS can't investigate him because he lives in Britain. I'm assuming the British Virgin Islands here, since the other two sets are US territory. Which would, admittedly, be funnier.

No, he claimed to live in the US Virgin Islands.

He actually lived in Florida.

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137ben wrote:
Krensky wrote:
I find that hilarious because that's saying the IRS can't investigate him because he lives in Britain. I'm assuming the British Virgin Islands here, since the other two sets are US territory. Which would, admittedly, be funnier.

No, he claimed to live in the US Virgin Islands.

He actually lived in Florida.

That's too hilarious.

Did he not realise that the US Virgin Islands were still part of the US?

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Huh. Can't say I entirely agree with some of the posts that got removed, specifically a back and forth I had with Jaelithe where I claimed that considering homosexuality to be inherently wrong is not considered a reasonable assumption. I can't tell what exactly about that conversation was so offensive it had to be removed.


I have to say that despite the argument about whether it's right or not to require people not to discriminate, it's encouraging that no one here has actually taken the stance that the ruling is bad in and of itself. No one here is arguing against same sex marriage or melting down in claims of how the Court has betrayed America.

Unlike some corners of the web.


Or some particularly stupid troll logic pieces like this.

But be careful: If you're a liberal it might make you EXPLODE!


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Rynjin wrote:

Or some particularly stupid troll logic pieces like this.

But be careful: If you're a liberal it might make you EXPLODE!

actually, I have no problem with the second amendme-

explodes

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Alan West took an extra large dose of stupid pills this (notional) morning I see.


Although on the second amendment note, a national set of gun laws wouldn't really be a bad thing. Something less restrictive than the NYSafe act (which seems like it makes nearly everything more modern than a six-shooter illegal) and not as permissive as some of the southern states where a concealed-carry permit is just matter of asking for one.

But those things really have nothing to do with the decision on marriage.


I really don't care for concealed weapons. I want them out in the open, proudly displayed.

I'm all for six shooters, actually.


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Rynjin wrote:

Or some particularly stupid troll logic pieces like this.

But be careful: If you're a liberal it might make you EXPLODE!

I can't really argue with their logic. Hell, I can't even find their logic.

But seriously, if there was a precedent set there, which there isn't, it would have been set in Loving vs Virginia, not now. A decision that, btw, was equally decried as judicial overreach and an assault on state's rights and real Americans in its day.


thejeff wrote:
Rynjin wrote:

Or some particularly stupid troll logic pieces like this.

But be careful: If you're a liberal it might make you EXPLODE!

I can't really argue with their logic. Hell, I can't even find their logic.

That does make it harder to argue against.....


Lord Snow wrote:
Huh. Can't say I entirely agree with some of the posts that got removed ... I can't tell what exactly about that conversation was so offensive it had to be removed.

I never requested that any post be removed, or even reviewed, so I don't know what to tell you.

thejeff wrote:

I have to say that despite the argument about whether it's right or not to require people not to discriminate, it's encouraging that no one here has actually taken the stance that the ruling is bad in and of itself. No one here is arguing against same sex marriage or melting down in claims of how the Court has betrayed America.

Unlike some corners of the web.

And a goodly portion of the Supreme Court itself, it would seem. Have you read some of Justice Scalia's dissent? Yowsah. I think a Justice should have a little more dignity than that, though the "hippie" comment amused me for an instant. He and Justice Thomas seem to have disagreed via hair-raising and hair-splitting, respectively. I see the point the latter is making, but ... he certainly doesn't justify his ruling with his rhetoric, in my opinion.

I'm likely about to get myself in trouble with some of the posters here, but I do think that Chief Justice Roberts makes some excellent, worthwhile points in his dissent—ones that should give any thoughtful person on either side serious pause. As for Justice Alito's perspective, only time will tell.


Rynjin wrote:

Or some particularly stupid troll logic pieces like this.

But be careful: If you're a liberal it might make you EXPLODE!

Some unique ideas, I'm not certain if the idea holds water or not. If they push it I suppose they'll get a Federal ruling sooner than later. It could be somewhat interesting if they actually follow through on their statement to bring all their CCL's to DC and see what comes of it...

I imagine the first thing, if it's a large crowd and they all make it known, is possibly a lot of arrests?

The court cases would ensue after that?


Not sure whether it was Scalia or Alito who said something along the lines of 'Innocence is not, in and of itself, justification to be released from prison', but I don't expect anything decent out of anyone who can say that. Proof of innocence alone is enough reason to open the cell right away and hold anyone who objects in contempt of court.

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The logic is (for those having trouble with it):

1) A permit - tied to an established right..
2) Which varies from State to State in enforcement or even if they are issued at all..
3) Should have uniformity with all other States already issuing said permits tied to the established right.

This should be fun to watch...

I hope this happens..not just with CC permits but also the unconstitutional acts of rogue states limiting magazine capacities to 10 rounds.


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But there's no logic in tying that to marriage equality.

And if there was any logic, it existed since Loving vs Virginia forced interracial marriage on the states.

This decision changes nothing and establishes no fundamental principle, other than adding another category to those who can be married.


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Grey Lensman wrote:
Not sure whether it was Scalia or Alito who said something along the lines of 'Innocence is not, in and of itself, justification to be released from prison', but I don't expect anything decent out of anyone who can say that. Proof of innocence alone is enough reason to open the cell right away and hold anyone who objects in contempt of court.

It was Scalia and it was actually worse, since it was a death penalty case.


thejeff wrote:
Grey Lensman wrote:
Not sure whether it was Scalia or Alito who said something along the lines of 'Innocence is not, in and of itself, justification to be released from prison', but I don't expect anything decent out of anyone who can say that. Proof of innocence alone is enough reason to open the cell right away and hold anyone who objects in contempt of court.
It was Scalia and it was actually worse, since it was a death penalty case.

I was wondering who the 'Most Un-American Man in Government' was after people like McCarthy and J. Edgar Hoover left....


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Auxmaulous wrote:

The logic is (for those having trouble with it):

1) A permit - tied to an established right..
2) Which varies from State to State in enforcement or even if they are issued at all..
3) Should have uniformity with all other States already issuing said permits tied to the established right.

No, it should be uniform within the state regardless of the person applying for it. Thats what equal treatment under the law means, the same way it applies to any other permit or right.

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thejeff wrote:
But there's no logic in tying that to marriage equality.

It has jack s$** to do with marriage equality, it has everything to do with State rights and laws enacted by the States that trump individual rights as guaranteed by the 2nd amendment.

States also had the right to decide who they issued marriage permits to and who would be denied on a State-by-State basis. That ended last week when the SCOTUS took that ability away from the States.

But why stop there, I hope soon that one day we have the Affordable Weapon Act - where everyone of combat age (15 and up) should be required to purchase a fully automatic assault rifle - that or pay a hefty tax (or Jail)!

Amendment XIV Section 1 wrote:
Amendment XIV Section 1. All persons born or naturalized in the United States, and subject to the jurisdiction thereof, are citizens of the United States and of the state wherein they reside. No state shall make or enforce any law, which shall abridge the privileges or immunities of citizens of the United States; nor shall any state deprive any person of life, liberty, or property, without due process of law; nor deny to any person within its jurisdiction the equal protection of the laws.

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BNW wrote:
No, it should be uniform within the state regardless of the person applying for it. Thats what equal treatment under the law means, the same way it applies to any other permit or right.

You should be telling that to the SCOTUS instead of posting it here.


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Y'know, I was just looking at this thread and saying to my buddy, here, I was all, "Yeah it's fun and all, but gay rights aren't quite controversial 'nuff, what about if we like tie in gun control or something?"

Imagine my surprise when I refreshed the page and saw that someone else had the same idea!

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