Yeah. I remember ...
After taking the book, the cousin, who had been as close as a sister to my mother growing up, decided that since her family wass 'more religious' (whatever TF that means-guess they went to church more often but kinda missed the whole 'Thou Shall not Steal' bit) that they deserved to keep the family bible. So, my mother had to spend her last few months of life feeling betrayed by a trusted family member over a bible, of all things.
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I don't know whether to cry or scream right now. He was never really gone as long as I knew I had that part of him, something to hold in my hand that had been his. Something I would place in my son's hands someday. Now... I have nothing of him.
If it is any consolation, you and your son are your father's true legacy. Your scumbag brother can never take that away.
Also, karma is a vengeful b+&##. He'll get his, count on it. Might not be today, might not be tomorrow, but the wheel of Ka always turns.
The monkey is wise. Still, I cannot imagine the pain and rage... like losing somebody all over again. I'm so sorry, LPM.
You know the rule. This is the place to vent, among friends.
Hey aeglos, I never mentioned that I spent two tours in Germany. First one from late '77 to late '8- in Kitzingen, then from early '83 to early '86 in Garlstedt. During the first tour I went to Wine Festival in Rodelseer. Man they make some good wine.
Thanks guys, I feel a little guilty for dropping that here, I mean there are others who have worse things going on in their lives right now. Sorry for the ranting.
What Treppa said. If I can complain about a fever and my nose being a little runny... well, you get my point.
Nothing cheers me up like Einstein Bagels and Sandwiches.
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On the upside just a couple more hours before the mother in law picks up the kids, and then we can get started on our night out, really need some grown up fun tonight.
Bingo and a walk through the local art museum?
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On the upside just a couple more hours before the mother in law picks up the kids, and then we can get started on our night out, really need some grown up fun tonight.Bingo and a walk through the local art museum?
Hell no.
Dinner, drinks, and*
*Spoilered for adult fun.
On the upside just a couple more hours before the mother in law picks up the kids, and then we can get started on our night out, really need some grown up fun tonight.Bingo and a walk through the local art museum?Hell no.
Dinner, drinks, and* ** spoiler omitted **
*Spoilered for adult fun.
enjoy your time out, good to see that you calmed down a bit, try to forget that stuff for the evening
Hey aeglos, I never mentioned that I spent two tours in Germany. First one from late '77 to late '8- in Kitzingen, then from early '83 to early '86 in Garlstedt. During the first tour I went to Wine Festival in Rodelseer. Man they make some good wine.
cool!
I live 85 miles northwest of kitzingen.Growing up in the Fulda Gap we had a huge US Army presence when i was a child. Tank Divisions here in Gelnhausen, in Hanau and Büdingen. Helicopters in Erlensee, the Airbase in Frankfurt.
Kitzingen is a huge wine producer, most people conect beer and Germany (and thruthfully so) but we have a very old and huge wine production and wine culture. I live in an Area not known for Beer or wine but Applewine instead, in fact drinking one while I type this
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Thanks guys, I feel a little guilty for dropping that here, I mean there are others who have worse things going on in their lives right now. Sorry for the ranting.
That's a s$+&ty thing to deal with, Moorluck. It seems to happen all too often among families, in my experience. Feel free to vent as you need to, and heed the words of the monkey.
Hey Aeglos I messed up a little bit. I meant to say first tour was from late '77 to late '80. During the second tour I took my Sportster over and toured all over northern Germany. even traveled the AutoBahn from Osterholtz-Sharmbeck to Kitzingen and back.
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You know I find comfort in my belief in evolution. Mainly because it just makes me keep visualizing messageboard trolls as shrieking monkeys flinging poo at a computer screen.
Thanks guys, I feel a little guilty for dropping that here, I mean there are others who have worse things going on in their lives right now. Sorry for the ranting.
No sweat.
Patrick's story on genealogy triggered this -
Have you ever requested Civil War service records on your ancestors? I don't know how good they are for Southern soldiers, but they are interesting reads. I have them for my gg-grandfathers and their brothers. A lot of little factoids that give a glimpse into their lives. At least you might find some knowledge to pass down to your sons.
I research this stuff from time to time. When I find something I scan it and share it. It's sad when families hoard info/pics/knowledge/stuff. It's more sad when someone does what was done to you.
Send me a note if you need/want my help. I may be rusty but I'm willing to help.
Thanks guys, I feel a little guilty for dropping that here, I mean there are others who have worse things going on in their lives right now. Sorry for the ranting.What Treppa said. If I can complain about a fever and my nose being a little runny... well, you get my point.
+ Me to this.
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LPM, I'm feeling your pain. Right now my brother is living with our parents. For the last 18 months. And he's officially done some renovating by building an "office/game room" in the basement so he can work down there and cut down on the noise pollution from his video games. I've talked to my mom about it, worried he is "staking a claim" on the house and know that I'm going to have to sit down with him and lawyers to make sure he's not going to try something when they pass.
=/ Rough to hear LPM. Good luck in your search. Hopefully whoever he sold them to has a better heart than this scumbag.
SO now I find out that everything I had handed down from my father was stolen and sold off by one of my own brothers. I will kill him, f@**ing kill him.
My god. That is a disgusting act! Why would he do something so horrible?
SO now I find out that everything I had handed down from my father was stolen and sold off by one of my own brothers. I will kill him, f*%~ing kill him.... What the?!...When my dad passed he divided his gun collection up among us sons. Solnes has always been uncomfortable with guns in the house so I had my mother keep them for me. So I talked to her today about getting mine and maybe buying his M-14 off her as well. She tells me she doesn't have them anymore, that he stole them and she has no idea who he sold them to. I know it may sound stupid to some, but those guns and the Civil War Sabres were all he left me, everything I had of the man. And she never even called the police, no report filed nothing. He's in Hampton Va now, and I'm trying to track him down to A) Find out what he did with them, and B) let him know I will be coming for him, I will not suffer a piece off s#&* like him to carry the same name as me.
Those were mine, my part of Dad, to be handed down to my sons.
I hope he didn't sell those for money. Those are a living part of American history. Did your family fight in the civil war?
Did I ever tell you that I wanted to get a tattoo across my right fist that says "Karma"?
But thanks monkey, I appreciate the sentiment.
You need to it tattooed backward on your hand so it leaves an imprint of the word on people's faces.
Of course, this may make it easier for you to be tracked down by the authorities, but it may be worth it, especially in this case.
Thanks guys, I feel a little guilty for dropping that here, I mean there are others who have worse things going on in their lives right now. Sorry for the ranting.
You have nothing to feel guilty about or apologize for. That is what we/this thread is here for.
On the upside just a couple more hours before the mother in law picks up the kids, and then we can get started on our night out, really need some grown up fun tonight.Bingo and a walk through the local art museum?Hell no.
Dinner, drinks, and* ** spoiler omitted **
*Spoilered for adult fun.
WOOT! It will help.
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I didn't realize that today was the day that the flea market starts where I live. There are a few interesting sets of teacups and a little tea-for-one teapot/cup combo that I'm interested in, although I think the lady is charging waaaaaay too much. I also ran into a BUNCH of people from work- first job, not second job. It sometimes helps to know that through my first job I work with a part of the community that is often forgotten about, and that they really do appreciate what I do.
Popping in for a quick, late night "wassup?!?"
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I have an important, deeply sensitive question to ask:
No. Do it DIY, like our punk rock forefathers of yore. Buy a blank t-shirt and scrawl "Boomstick" across it with a black magic marker. When the intellectual property rights man comes to collect, tell 'im to go f%@~ himself.
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No. Do it DIY, like our punk rock forefathers of yore. Buy a blank t-shirt and scrawl "Boomstick" across it with a black magic marker. When the intellectual property rights man comes to collect, tell 'im to go f#++ himself.
Meh... My brand of DIY is less edupunk and more Norm Abram.
good morning FaWtL
Morning Aeglos!
It's a bright shiny day at the Curtin farm. I have to decapitate my rebellious grass and sow my wildflower garden today. Also, it is past time for my sunflowers to go in. I managed to plant my Dells Atlantic Giant pumpkin seedlings. I am hoping to gets at least one or two 100+ pound specimens this fall
Morning Aeglos!
It's a bright shiny day at the Curtin farm. I have to decapitate my rebellious grass and sow my wildflower garden today. Also, it is past time for my sunflowers to go in. I managed to plant my Dells Atlantic Giant pumpkin seedlings. I am hoping to gets at least one or two 100+ pound specimens this fall
have fun Patrick,
hmm, maybe I should leave my couch and do a bit of gardening myself
Wow I am up way the frack early.
what is the time your end?
*blink*
Early? Pish it is 8am here, half past sunset! =D
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I hope he didn't sell those for money. Those are a living part of American history. Did your family fight in the civil war?
Yeah, he sold them for the money to move to VA with his girlfriend after leaving his wife. Real upstanding guy.
Yes, both sides fought for the Confederacy, although there was one on the Jordan side who crossed over and fought for the Union as a calvary officer. The Moore side were poor share croppers and laborers, used to work the fields beside the slaves but a fight was a fight, and no Moore would turn down a fight. I have a china cabinet that was bought by one of the Jordans after the war ended, he was one of the lucky Southern soldiers that actually got paid when it was done.