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Also,
Consult your GM
I apologise in advance if this seems rude but it is a furious bugbear of mine i am attempting to lay to rest and react to less severely in future, but, baby steps.
Has 'ask the DM' ever contributed positively to an online conversation in any way other than as an outlet to display a refusal to answer the question and discourage further input?
If you deconstruct it a little, implying that you assume the person it is addressed to is utterly ignorant of what is possibly the single most ubiquitous and deepest underlying concept in the entire community, or that this idea hadn't occurred to them(assuming they even have/aren't a GM) before posting based on the question they have asked is kind of an expression of contempt for that person and what they've said unless they've given you genuine cause to believe that this is the case.
It's kind of like a socially acceptable way of telling someone to shut up and calling them an idiot, vaguely shaped like something helpful.
(I may tend to jump to conclusions and get overprotective of people in these situations because of how much i detest having information withheld and being condescended to, myself, so i apologise if it comes off super aggressively. But again, i don't see how directing someone on a tabletop rpg forum to rule 0 is supposed to be received as anything other than a personal insult & wanted to tell you that's how i see that coming across in case you don't.
Incidentally, to people who say that instead of an answer or opinion WITHOUT meaning offense or derision, what do you think it means sub textually, if not just "i'm not going to answer you and don't think anyone else should try to help either"?
(I realize it can be a qualifier standing in for YMMV but i'm refering to it as a first or only response to a query)