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So things got a little carried away with the stats side of things which is understandable.
The other side of the story is that as bad as this will sound I'm very stubborn, I'm also very direct and I most likely am a large part of the problem in the group, I will admit this as I do feel guilty for it, It's why I come here asking for advice on how to handle this other player as I know my approach just won't work and I can't bare to ruin it for the other 2 players in the group despite their agreements with my points (Each week they're even bringing the concerns to me as I won't avoid the discussion). As said this guy is an ok guy except when it comes to the games.
Before this campaign we had a very stable group of players. Me and the other newbie were part of a group of 3 veteran roleplayers (1 of which is now the GM, who GM'd that campaign too) and this other player. In that campaign he was exactly the same but as the other 2 vets were there it cushioned alot of it and as one of them was quite the rules lawyer he always had someone to answer to with everything he did. Due to life we've lost the 2 vets and of course the GM can't be expected to watch this other guy all the time so now he seems to be trying to get away with things which of course brings it more to our notice. I'll admit I'm not understanding of alot of the rules (Except grapple, that one I can get to grips with hehe...) but I can notice when something isn't what it seems and I'm certainly not one to let something slide when it becomes a group concern.
Sorry if this thread has caused a bit of a commotion, that wasn't intended at all. I am grateful for ALL advice given and hopefully when we do commence gaming again it will have a positive effect for all of us.