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Hi! This ticked me off so much I had my husband create me an alias to post under. The wife knew you and your hobbies when she agreed to date and marry you. She agreed to "better or worse" not until your hobby makes her happy. So she can just take a pill and relax a minute. I assume from your post that you're spending time with her and the kid. You're not fooling around, wasting money on tramps, or gambling needlessly. Sh#t could always be worse. As a gamer's wife/girlfriend for over 11 years now, I love my husband in his entirety - are there some things I like more than others, absolutely, but he's my best friend and gaming is part of who he is. How and if she explains to her friends is her issue. It has nothing to do with you. Her picking fights simply is not fair to you, her, or the relationship. If she has a legit gripe, it's not about the game or your time at the game - she needs to spill and let you know the real reason she's upset 'cause I promise you, there's something else behind it. You sound like you rarely game as is and I really hate to see that because you need to have your outlet just as she needs hers. Suggest she have a girls' night or something with her friends that you're strictly not involved in preferably during the game or that night. Best of luck getting this resolved. :)