| Leadfeather |
But sooner or later your girlfriend is gonna wanna know what you do on those "boy's nights" so im wondering what other guys have done when it comes to this.
Here is the method that worked for me.
First I stopped playing D&D around 1985. Then I went to college, met a girl, married her, had kids, waited again until my younger sisters got married, waited some more. Finally after 14 years of marriage, I mentioned to a coworker I was interested in starting up a roleplaying game. She mentioned that her husband was interested. I invited him and my brother-in-law over to play some D&D.
The three of us played in the basement of my house for about a year, then my sister joined us. This was the final piece of the puzzle! Once my wife heard the 4 of us rolling dice and laughing every Friday night down in the basement she got curious. The fact that one of the people downstairs was a woman helped her overcome the last hurdle. Finally, a year and a half after restarting D&D the woman I married became a gamer.
Or you could just tell her you game right off the bat, and ask her to try it out.