I really appreciated Vivianne Laflamme's analysis there. Definitely some good points. To be honest, I'd be far more OK with Folgrit's passivity if there were also male gods associated with passive roles. Like, what if Iomadae had a male consort whose only job was to support his crusading goddess/wife? I think there could be a really interesting story/deity there.
I feel that all the things Folgrit's portfolio includes are worthwhile, but as a guy who really doesn't fit the "male stereotype," I'd really like to see more male deities with supporting personalities and such. I love the empowerment of some of the female deities and applaud Paizo's efforts on the whole, and I'd love to see them apply that creativity to some male deities who push boundaries in the other direction and challenge some of the stupid aspects of "male stereotypes."