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I can relate to your 'friend'.
3 things I don't like about PFO and turn me right off from the game. The PvP, the Player Looting, The staggered release. These things have stopped me from supporting the development of the game.
Now the 'bad feelings' I get from these things I don't like, combined with people at me to 'change my mind' or telling me how 'silly' I am for feeling the way I do, telling me to 'go read' more about it(when I have read everything I can) or how 'angry' it makes them when I express my opinions and feelings on the game, kinda puts a big downer on the whole pathfinder experience, the TT and MMO and the rest.
Also the way the MMO is being marketed at the moment it feels like it is side by side with the TT. With the normal TT pathfinder newsletters spouting stuff about the MMO, and the MMO talking about the TT adventure books, the two separate things displayed over the same website and forums.. it is hard not to keep them separated in your mind.
If you feel disappointment of one it can shadow the other.
When somebody is not happy about something, try and show them some support, it can be a lonely feeling not liking how something is when all/most-of your friends (and the gaming community) don't mind it and are constantly telling you how 'silly' you are for not seeing it their way..
Maybe get a TT game happening with your 'friend' (if one is not happening atm that is), something simple and not to complicated, back to the basics of Pathfinder TT, just to reassure them how much fun the TT game really is, don't even bring up the MMO at all at the TT-game..
Keep them totally separated in real life and the good feelings he/she gets from that may just over-power the negative they have for the MMO and change their mind a little.. maybe..
Anyway, if they are really your 'friend' showing them some support and understanding, rather than telling them they are silly and trying to change their mind, will go a lot further...
But I can relate to your 'friend' and have similar feelings, and I have seen many others have the same feelings and opinions, so it is not an isolated case. A lot of people are getting frustrated, not only about the MMO but also about they way they are being treated because of the way they feel about the MMO...