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houstonderek wrote:You know I was reading the Advice column in one of our independent papers at work last nite and it had another "My husband has had an emotional affair..." And all I can think is What is an emotional affair? Are you complaining that he made a friend and cares for her? I'm confused!Solnes wrote:Mairkurion {tm} wrote:Dang, it's not easy being SFA...
And good morning Solnes, and to you all!
Anybody here ever watched the film, The Lover?
SFA??
No, I haven't seen or read that one.
A little off topic, but Moorluck posed an interesting question...is a one nite stand considered having an affair? Or is it just cheating?
Ah, Jane March. MMmmmm.......
An affair is an emotional, on-going thing, a one night stand is just cheating, imo.
I'll never get that. Why can't I have a good friend who's a chick? Insecure much? ;)

Solnes |

Solnes wrote:I'll never get that. Why can't I have a good friend who's a chick? Insecure much? ;)houstonderek wrote:You know I was reading the Advice column in one of our independent papers at work last nite and it had another "My husband has had an emotional affair..." And all I can think is What is an emotional affair? Are you complaining that he made a friend and cares for her? I'm confused!Solnes wrote:Mairkurion {tm} wrote:Dang, it's not easy being SFA...
And good morning Solnes, and to you all!
Anybody here ever watched the film, The Lover?
SFA??
No, I haven't seen or read that one.
A little off topic, but Moorluck posed an interesting question...is a one nite stand considered having an affair? Or is it just cheating?
Ah, Jane March. MMmmmm.......
An affair is an emotional, on-going thing, a one night stand is just cheating, imo.
Well I'm not! Ok, maybe a bit...but I don't think I'd ever accuse my husband of having an emotional affair...Not when I can come out right and accuse him of having a straight affair!

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houstonderek wrote:Solnes wrote:I'll never get that. Why can't I have a good friend who's a chick? Insecure much? ;)houstonderek wrote:You know I was reading the Advice column in one of our independent papers at work last nite and it had another "My husband has had an emotional affair..." And all I can think is What is an emotional affair? Are you complaining that he made a friend and cares for her? I'm confused!Solnes wrote:Mairkurion {tm} wrote:Dang, it's not easy being SFA...
And good morning Solnes, and to you all!
Anybody here ever watched the film, The Lover?
SFA??
No, I haven't seen or read that one.
A little off topic, but Moorluck posed an interesting question...is a one nite stand considered having an affair? Or is it just cheating?
Ah, Jane March. MMmmmm.......
An affair is an emotional, on-going thing, a one night stand is just cheating, imo.
Well I'm not! Ok, maybe a bit...but I don't think I'd ever accuse my husband of having an emotional affair...Not when I can come out right and accuse him of having a straight affair!
** spoiler omitted **
A straight affair? Well, is a gay affair ok?

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Solnes wrote:houstonderek wrote:Solnes wrote:I'll never get that. Why can't I have a good friend who's a chick? Insecure much? ;)houstonderek wrote:You know I was reading the Advice column in one of our independent papers at work last nite and it had another "My husband has had an emotional affair..." And all I can think is What is an emotional affair? Are you complaining that he made a friend and cares for her? I'm confused!Solnes wrote:Mairkurion {tm} wrote:Dang, it's not easy being SFA...
And good morning Solnes, and to you all!
Anybody here ever watched the film, The Lover?
SFA??
No, I haven't seen or read that one.
A little off topic, but Moorluck posed an interesting question...is a one nite stand considered having an affair? Or is it just cheating?
Ah, Jane March. MMmmmm.......
An affair is an emotional, on-going thing, a one night stand is just cheating, imo.
Well I'm not! Ok, maybe a bit...but I don't think I'd ever accuse my husband of having an emotional affair...Not when I can come out right and accuse him of having a straight affair!
** spoiler omitted **
A straight affair? Well, is a gay affair ok?
We all know that those don't count. Camping trip with the guys? Come on - we've seen Brokeback Mountain.

Solnes |

Solnes wrote:houstonderek wrote:Solnes wrote:I'll never get that. Why can't I have a good friend who's a chick? Insecure much? ;)houstonderek wrote:You know I was reading the Advice column in one of our independent papers at work last nite and it had another "My husband has had an emotional affair..." And all I can think is What is an emotional affair? Are you complaining that he made a friend and cares for her? I'm confused!Solnes wrote:Mairkurion {tm} wrote:Dang, it's not easy being SFA...
And good morning Solnes, and to you all!
Anybody here ever watched the film, The Lover?
SFA??
No, I haven't seen or read that one.
A little off topic, but Moorluck posed an interesting question...is a one nite stand considered having an affair? Or is it just cheating?
Ah, Jane March. MMmmmm.......
An affair is an emotional, on-going thing, a one night stand is just cheating, imo.
Well I'm not! Ok, maybe a bit...but I don't think I'd ever accuse my husband of having an emotional affair...Not when I can come out right and accuse him of having a straight affair!
** spoiler omitted **
A straight affair? Well, is a gay affair ok?
Well ok, I walked into that one. You know what I meant..lol!
And I think if it were a gay one I would be too stunned to be mad! But Moorluck says that if I were to bed down with another girl he woldn't consider it as an affair..or cheating...so I suppose I would be ok with it....:)
taig RPG Superstar 2012 |

Solnes wrote:It's something that has always helped me keep things in perspective. The next verse even more so.
Hey David...Just got the message on Facebook...Intense...and thanks! :D
I need some perspective. If you don't mind, can you fire it off to:
[my message board name]@earthlink.net

taig RPG Superstar 2012 |

Re: emotional affairs
I have a co-worker who has given up on his marriage. I don't know the full story, but I just know he's pretty much waiting until the kids are out of the house. There's a woman who works in the office, and I'm certain there is no physical affair going on, but he confides in her for *everything* and vice versa. So, I think an emotional affair is one step beyond just being friends with someone of the opposite sex (and I agree that you'd have to be pretty insecure to be threatened by a casual friendship).

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David Fryer wrote:Solnes wrote:It's something that has always helped me keep things in perspective. The next verse even more so.
Hey David...Just got the message on Facebook...Intense...and thanks! :D
I need some perspective. If you don't mind, can you fire it off to:
** spoiler omitted **
Sent

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Well ok, I walked into that one. You know what I meant..lol!
And I think if it were a gay one I would be too stunned to be mad! But Moorluck says that if I were to bed down with another girl he woldn't consider it as an affair..or cheating...so I suppose I would be ok with it....:)Hmmm... I'll pass thank you.
yup she's gonna kill me. :P

taig RPG Superstar 2012 |

David Fryer wrote:I demand that the OP come back and tell us what he thinks of our monument to him, and the lemon-lime goodness of spite.Has he even posted since that?
That sure was a lot of "previous" selecting to get back there. :)
He posted twice. The FaWTL!!! post was his last post.

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Moorluck wrote:No, I'm a guy! See, this is why I'm so emo. Where is my copy of Vampire: The Angsting?Solnes' First Alias wrote:When do all the goth chicks get here? They're hot!Yes they are.... are you a lesbian?
Oh I think I saw you put it in your purse, right beside your eyeliner.
EDIT: NEW PAGE!! Stick that in your pipe and smoke it!

Acolyte of David Fryer |

Acolyte of David Fryer wrote:No no no no... you need.... hooooooooope.... and chaaaaaange... not this Fryer fellow.taig wrote:Thanks, David. That does help put things in perspective.The Great Fryer will tell you the truth... he is worthy of our worsh.... uhm... I mean adoration.
*beats the zombie down with her baseball bat*
Shut up! There isn't any politics allowed here!

Obambie |

Obambie wrote:Acolyte of David Fryer wrote:No no no no... you need.... hooooooooope.... and chaaaaaange... not this Fryer fellow.taig wrote:Thanks, David. That does help put things in perspective.The Great Fryer will tell you the truth... he is worthy of our worsh.... uhm... I mean adoration.*beats the zombie down with her baseball bat*
Shut up! There isn't any politics allowed here!
Ooooooooh, my bad. Did anyone catch the game?

Acolyte of David Fryer |

Acolyte of David Fryer wrote:Ooooooooh, my bad. Did anyone catch the game?Obambie wrote:Acolyte of David Fryer wrote:No no no no... you need.... hooooooooope.... and chaaaaaange... not this Fryer fellow.taig wrote:Thanks, David. That does help put things in perspective.The Great Fryer will tell you the truth... he is worthy of our worsh.... uhm... I mean adoration.*beats the zombie down with her baseball bat*
Shut up! There isn't any politics allowed here!
What game?

Obambie |

Obambie wrote:What game?Acolyte of David Fryer wrote:Ooooooooh, my bad. Did anyone catch the game?Obambie wrote:Acolyte of David Fryer wrote:No no no no... you need.... hooooooooope.... and chaaaaaange... not this Fryer fellow.taig wrote:Thanks, David. That does help put things in perspective.The Great Fryer will tell you the truth... he is worthy of our worsh.... uhm... I mean adoration.*beats the zombie down with her baseball bat*
Shut up! There isn't any politics allowed here!
I don't know... I was just trying to make coversation. :(