Long story short. I have always run the original edition (little booklets) D&D. I am retiring my campaign of many years and have decided to move on to Pathfinder but wanted to learn the "streamlined 3.5" rules. To that end a friend offered to run me through a "3.5" game.
I prepared a dwarven cleric of Moradin and perused the Player's guide. But when we played my friend didn't use any of the book's rules. He "winged it" and made declarations without any dice rolls. When I asked about spot checks and such, he chided that he would tell me if I needed to roll dice.
After two hours we stopped the game. He asked how I had liked it and I told him I felt disappointed because he hadn't introduced me to the mechanics of the game as I had been hoping. He grinned and said he had done that on purpose to show me that mechanics aren't important and that the 3.5 DM's guide even supported the idea of discarding rules you don't want to use. I asked how do you know which edition you are running then? He said it didn't matter, that was his point.
We discussed it for another hour and again today at lunch. He's insists that I just don't get the "modern" way of thinking and I'm just confused. Does anyone here know what he means? I just wanted to experience 3.5 rules in action but he insists that I'm not seeing the forest for the trees.
Am I right or wrong to feel slightly disappointed?
- Senator