Red Mel- I like your characters backstory but I am unsure how I would get you to the point of meeting your soul mate and raising kids, though I have no problem with the becoming a god part for long term.
Not to worry. ^^ It's just a goal she has; it doesn't have to come true for her to want it. Maybe something will blossom between Mel and one of the other PCs. Maybe we'll meet an NPC and they'll hit it off. Or maybe she'll never find her soulmate or have kids, and it will be a thing she carries with her after her Ascension, which grants her greater compassion for others seeking love.