Sadly the stonelord is not a good class for a Sword and Board build since you will never be able to get the requisite feats in line and will have problems balanicing out your stats.
Yeah - unlike the fighter on that link, you don't really get enough feats to do this.
Remembering the prereqs you might be looking at
1: TWF
3: Improved shield bash
5: Double slice
7: Improved TWF (assuming you have a +2 dex from a magic item or something by now)
9: Shield slam
11: Shield master
13: Greater TWF
15: Two-weapon rend
You'd be spending all your feats on this tactic and still would be well behind a class better suited to this combat style (fighter, slayer, ranger, warpriest, nature fang druid, or even a rogue or warsighted oracle).
The most common build is probably to use a weapon two-handed with Power Attack, more Strength, less Dexterity, and rely on your ability to heal yourself as a swift action to compensate for low AC.
In general, Stonelord isn't actually a very good archetype though I have played one.
I built him to be a very dwarf dwarf, by giving him a dwarven Dorn-Dergar with Darting Viper and Power Attack.
If you're just interested in a 2WF Dwarf, I'd recommend the Foehammer Fighter archetype. You'll get the feats you need for 2WF, and at level 9, they get Rhythmic Blows, which is essentially the Hammer the Gap feat, which was made for 2WF builds, meaning you can combine them and actually have a decent build around Hammer the Gap. If you really wanted to play a Paladin, too, you might actually have enough feats to afford to VMC into Paladin, which will get you At Will Detect Evil at 3rd level, Lay on Hands at 7th level, Smite Evil at 11th level, and then a Mercy and Divine Bond at 15th and 19th levels respectively.
I agree with Claxon. If you mainly want a Dwarfy Paladin Tortured Crusader is superior to Stonelord.