I really wouldn't rule out sorcerer if I were you. Yes, it gets 9th-level spells at 18th level instead of 17th, but (1) you will literally be playing for years before you get to that level, (2) you will only be at that level for a brief time, and (3) if you are that motivated, I'm sure you can convince your GM to bring the game up to 18th level to give you your "capstone".
If you come to your senses and consider sorcerer, the Verdant bloodline has a very nice 1st-level ability that will help you out greatly in the early levels, and (unlike most 1st-level sorcerer powers) remain relevant through mid levels. Sorcerer also takes advantage of your racial Cha bonus, unlike the other classes you've highlighted. Plus, I feel like high Cha helps you better achieve the "fey queen" idea.
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I'd recommend taking a look at the Witch class, if you want a more nature-based arcane caster. Your witch patron could be the powerful fey being who taught you magic in the first place.
If you have access to the Blood of the Coven supplement, then the Fey Gifts or Green Whispers specialized patron might work well with your character.
You can take a look at the Feyspeaker Druid. You lose a lot of martial effectuiveness, but if you're just looking to be a fey-based full caster, it's pretty to-the-point. Taking the Fey Spell Lore feat as Lucy_Valentine suggested would also be very helpful.
If you don't mind going more ranger than druid you could look at taking the "Hinterlander" prestige class. It basically turns you into a ranger while mostly maintaining your spell progression.
Alternatively, you could make an Druid with the Urban Druid Archetype plus knowledge domain.
From a role-playing perspective your character could be "wizard" who simply delved deep into nature magic. You could even take levels in pathfinder savant to pick up some of the wizard spells you would otherwise miss out on.
You can take the Magaambyan Arcanist prestige class to add druid spells to your wizard spell list, but they have to be 2 spell levels below your highest level spell.
Fey speaker and fey spell lore are beautiful flavor wise. Is there anything similar to add druid spells to a wizard?
I'm not aware of any way to get a list of Druid spells put onto your spell list in a way similar to Fey Spell Lore, but there are a couple Arcane Discoveries that can help you a little bit.
There's an Arcane Discovery called Yuelral's Blessing you can take at 5th level that gives you a +1 bonus to CL and spell DC on any Wizard spell you cast that also appears on the Druid spell list. There's another Arcane Discovery called Faith Magic (also eligible at 5th level) that lets you pick a domain offered by the deity you worship, and pick a spell from that domain 2 levels lower than the highest level spell you can cast, and add it to your spell book, though it must be cast as a spell 1 level higher (so you can take it at 5th level to grab a 1st-level spell and cast it as a 2nd level spell, or you can wait until 10th level and grab a 3rd-level spell and cast it as a 4th-level spell. Obviously, you'd want to grab a spell from a nature-themed domain to get a Druid spell. Also, this spell is always cast as a Divine spell (meaning Arcane Spell Failure isn't a thing, but you need a holy symbol to cast it if a Divine Focus is one of the components).