Pornography: Destructive Entertainment? Or Good Times? Somewhere in Between?


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Lemmy wrote:

Take it as you will, thejeff... But that study honestly doesn't seem very accurate or unbiased. I don't see how it could not be.

That's a real limitation of studies that rely on what people's impressions. If a scientist said to the participants something like "watch more porn, tell me if you notice any negative effects", how do you know it was an actual increase in negative behaviors rather than an increased in observed/imagined behavior? I doubt the scientists kept tables on the sex life of the participants.

We see this kind of (often unconscious) bias all the time.

It is kinda hard to judge a study without knowing much about it though.


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Yuugasa wrote:
Lemmy wrote:

Take it as you will, thejeff... But that study honestly doesn't seem very accurate or unbiased. I don't see how it could not be.

That's a real limitation of studies that rely on what people's impressions. If a scientist said to the participants something like "watch more porn, tell me if you notice any negative effects", how do you know it was an actual increase in negative behaviors rather than an increased in observed/imagined behavior? I doubt the scientists kept tables on the sex life of the participants.

We see this kind of (often unconscious) bias all the time.

It is kinda hard to judge a study without knowing much about it though.

Nah, it's easy. You just judge it by whether it gives the results you want.

If it doesn't, you rely on your gut feelings and anecdotes you've heard.
The study might well be flawed. Everything that doesn't even reach that standard certainly is.


thejeff wrote:
Yuugasa wrote:
Lemmy wrote:

Take it as you will, thejeff... But that study honestly doesn't seem very accurate or unbiased. I don't see how it could not be.

That's a real limitation of studies that rely on what people's impressions. If a scientist said to the participants something like "watch more porn, tell me if you notice any negative effects", how do you know it was an actual increase in negative behaviors rather than an increased in observed/imagined behavior? I doubt the scientists kept tables on the sex life of the participants.

We see this kind of (often unconscious) bias all the time.

It is kinda hard to judge a study without knowing much about it though.

Nah, it's easy. You just judge it by whether it gives the results you want.

If it doesn't, you rely on your gut feelings and anecdotes you've heard.
The study might well be flawed. Everything that doesn't even reach that standard certainly is.

Lol.


Krensky wrote:

While I suspect you're right, it's also worth remembering that a LOT of your (generic you) neurology can't tell the difference between reality and non-real visual stimulus. I don't mean your brain thinks there's little people in the box, but think about all optical illusions (including video itself) that you encounter all the time and how they work. See the Checker Shadow Illusion for an example.

This is, of course, different than thinking that Gilligan's Island is a documentary, but still interesting.

Visual illusions rely on aspects of the brain that are entirely separate from what we use for our social understanding. We don't rely on the visual center of the brain that is tricked by illusions to make decisions in social situations. We might use the information the visual center has given us, but a different portion is where that decision is made.


thejeff wrote:
Yuugasa wrote:
Lemmy wrote:

Take it as you will, thejeff... But that study honestly doesn't seem very accurate or unbiased. I don't see how it could not be.

That's a real limitation of studies that rely on what people's impressions. If a scientist said to the participants something like "watch more porn, tell me if you notice any negative effects", how do you know it was an actual increase in negative behaviors rather than an increased in observed/imagined behavior? I doubt the scientists kept tables on the sex life of the participants.

We see this kind of (often unconscious) bias all the time.

It is kinda hard to judge a study without knowing much about it though.

Nah, it's easy. You just judge it by whether it gives the results you want.

If it doesn't, you rely on your gut feelings and anecdotes you've heard.
The study might well be flawed. Everything that doesn't even reach that standard certainly is.

Like I said... Take it as you will. If you think that's what I'm doing... Well... I don't really care.


The mood of this thread has soured. We need a funny WTF moment to lighten the mood.

Hmmm what should I choose?...

...I know!

This fits some of the themes of the thread. NSFW

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Yuugasa wrote:

The mood of this thread has soured. We need a funny WTF moment to lighten the mood.

Hmmm what should I choose?...

...I know!

This fits some of the themes of the thread. NSFW

Like thirty years of repression... and hot dogs.


Krensky wrote:
Yuugasa wrote:

The mood of this thread has soured. We need a funny WTF moment to lighten the mood.

Hmmm what should I choose?...

...I know!

This fits some of the themes of the thread. NSFW

Like thirty years of repression... and hot dogs.

Nah, something about pornography and Japanese culture being hard to understand for westerners.

Liberty's Edge

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Yuugasa wrote:
Krensky wrote:
Yuugasa wrote:

The mood of this thread has soured. We need a funny WTF moment to lighten the mood.

Hmmm what should I choose?...

...I know!

This fits some of the themes of the thread. NSFW

Like thirty years of repression... and hot dogs.
Nah, something about pornography and Japanese culture being hard to understand for westerners.

* Facepalms.


Yuugasa wrote:
Krensky wrote:
Yuugasa wrote:

The mood of this thread has soured. We need a funny WTF moment to lighten the mood.

Hmmm what should I choose?...

...I know!

This fits some of the themes of the thread. NSFW

Like thirty years of repression... and hot dogs.
Nah, something about pornography and Japanese culture being hard to understand for westerners.

i am quite familiar with this fetish, although it is not one I share.


Musical interlude: NOFX - Lori Meyers


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Studies come in all qualities. Paywalls to studies are actively harmful, and this is why. Without seeing all of the study, we have no way of knowing why the study draws those conclusions, and so it remains useless to us. An abstract is not something that says much, certainly not enough to base arguments on.

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Freehold DM wrote:
Kalindlara wrote:
Freehold DM wrote:
Lemmy wrote:
Kalindlara wrote:
Lemmy wrote:
Saying porn causes body image issues and sets unrealistic expectations about sex is like saying The Matrix sets unrealistic expectations for learning kung fu and makes young martial artists feel bad about themselves because they don't look like Hollywood stars and can't dodge bullets!

Just touching on this point.

I'm not disagreeing with your larger point, but mainstream pornography is part of a much larger set of societal influences that cause body image issues. It's not the main culprit - I'd not even say top five - but it's still a part of how society can influence body image.

I'm speaking only about U.S. culture, by the way; I know we have an international community here, and I don't want to speak for other parts of the world. :)

However, I don't think anyone over... I dunno... 14~15 years believes that sex is like porn...

rents pizza delivery vehicle

I am an adult, dammit!

Do you deliver late-night?

...

Asking for a friend...

sets black manliness to old spice guy levels

I do indeed work the night shift.

Mmm... Isaiah Mustafa...

fans self with other hand

What were we talking about again?

Liberty's Edge

Pornography: Destructive to low-income and immigrant women and children.


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Kalindlara wrote:
Freehold DM wrote:
Kalindlara wrote:
Freehold DM wrote:
Lemmy wrote:
Kalindlara wrote:
Lemmy wrote:
Saying porn causes body image issues and sets unrealistic expectations about sex is like saying The Matrix sets unrealistic expectations for learning kung fu and makes young martial artists feel bad about themselves because they don't look like Hollywood stars and can't dodge bullets!

Just touching on this point.

I'm not disagreeing with your larger point, but mainstream pornography is part of a much larger set of societal influences that cause body image issues. It's not the main culprit - I'd not even say top five - but it's still a part of how society can influence body image.

I'm speaking only about U.S. culture, by the way; I know we have an international community here, and I don't want to speak for other parts of the world. :)

However, I don't think anyone over... I dunno... 14~15 years believes that sex is like porn...

rents pizza delivery vehicle

I am an adult, dammit!

Do you deliver late-night?

...

Asking for a friend...

sets black manliness to old spice guy levels

I do indeed work the night shift.

Mmm... Isaiah Mustafa...

fans self with other hand

What were we talking about again?

he is an awesome guy


Gark the Goblin wrote:
Pornography: Destructive to low-income and immigrant women and children.

Excellent. Please tell us what you base that statement on.


He could be going the low income > incr. risk of being trafficked route. Which, simply being low income doesn't put you at risk for that. However, proportionally speaking, more low income women are trafficked than high income women. That said, there are simply fewer high income women so it seems like one of those 'duh' kind of statistics.


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Also, pretty much everything bad has higher chance to happen to low-income people, since a higher income gives you more means to avoid the bad stuff.


Lemmy wrote:
Also, pretty much everything bad has higher chance to happen to low-income people, since a higher income gives you more means to avoid the bad stuff.

Wait, are you saying that pornography is bad stuff? If so, one more for the Destructive Entertainment camp.

derail

Tacticslion wrote:

The funny thing about the Miller test is that it's a running joke on a different forum that I frequent that most porn is completely worthless. I mean, there is no literary, artistic, political, or scientific value in watching two people have sex... unless there is, in which case there is value in anything.

As far as "patently offensive"... have you seen the internet?

Here, again, let's get this clear:
- prostitution is illegal, even if it is otherwise covered under every possible consideration given to pornography

- pornography is legal, even if it doesn't really hold up to anyone's standards, because it's everywhere (this was ruled against in a particular case, but, you know, it has yet to ever be enforced)

This is... bizarre, to say the least.

THIS IS SPARTA!

Er... oops.. wrong quote.

This is human nature.

I've been called out a number of times on these forums for being too cynical/immature (the terms seem to be contextually interchangeable) and yet.... this, exactly this.

You see now why I'm cynical about humanity in general and why voting, even in a mostly fair democracy like ours, is a silly waste of time? At least on the national level.

Tacticslion wrote:

One of the worst things, in my opinion, is the fact that "pimp" has become a thing that "everyone does". "Pimp my ride" or "pimp my style" or "pimp my kitchen" or whatever it is.

A "pimp" is, by definition, one who engages in human trafficking. We have, over-all, turned it into a joke.

That's horrible.

Blech, stopping, before I make myself more ill.

You should try a dose of cynicism. Works wonders for this type of nausia. :)

Sissyl wrote:
Personally, I would prefer it if laws were not made by complete and utter morons, or despicable, evil crusaders.

That's what you get for voting. Sane/non-moronic people don't seem to run for office all that often. Or if they do, and win, are out after one term.

/derail

Back on track.

Any country that has a strong shame/honor bias will show greatly under-reported rapes. Hence, reported rapes in Japan are among the lowest.


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Quark Blast wrote:
Lemmy wrote:
Also, pretty much everything bad has higher chance to happen to low-income people, since a higher income gives you more means to avoid the bad stuff.
Wait, are you saying that pornography is bad stuff? If so, one more for the Destructive Entertainment camp.

You put words into people's mouths almost as well as Peter North puts.... you get the idea.


Irontruth wrote:
Quark Blast wrote:
Lemmy wrote:
Also, pretty much everything bad has higher chance to happen to low-income people, since a higher income gives you more means to avoid the bad stuff.
Wait, are you saying that pornography is bad stuff? If so, one more for the Destructive Entertainment camp.
You put words into people's mouths almost as well as Peter North puts.... you get the idea.

my sides


Irontruth wrote:
Quark Blast wrote:
Lemmy wrote:
Also, pretty much everything bad has higher chance to happen to low-income people, since a higher income gives you more means to avoid the bad stuff.
Wait, are you saying that pornography is bad stuff? If so, one more for the Destructive Entertainment camp.
You put words into people's mouths almost as well as Peter North puts.... you get the idea.

Is there a point to this red herring?

Or do you just like to obtusely beat up on honest expression of opinions?

Or is it you like the easy pickings of verbally slapping a minor on a public forum?

And people wonder why I'm cynical. Pfft....


Quark Blast wrote:
Irontruth wrote:
Quark Blast wrote:
Lemmy wrote:
Also, pretty much everything bad has higher chance to happen to low-income people, since a higher income gives you more means to avoid the bad stuff.
Wait, are you saying that pornography is bad stuff? If so, one more for the Destructive Entertainment camp.
You put words into people's mouths almost as well as Peter North puts.... you get the idea.

Is there a point to this red herring?

Or do you just like to obtusely beat up on honest expression of opinions?

Or is it you like the easy pickings of verbally slapping a minor on a public forum?

And people wonder why I'm cynical. Pfft....

No one cares why you're cynical.


Durngrun Stonebreaker wrote:
Quark Blast wrote:
Irontruth wrote:
Quark Blast wrote:
Lemmy wrote:
Also, pretty much everything bad has higher chance to happen to low-income people, since a higher income gives you more means to avoid the bad stuff.
Wait, are you saying that pornography is bad stuff? If so, one more for the Destructive Entertainment camp.
You put words into people's mouths almost as well as Peter North puts.... you get the idea.

Is there a point to this red herring?

Or do you just like to obtusely beat up on honest expression of opinions?

Or is it you like the easy pickings of verbally slapping a minor on a public forum?

And people wonder why I'm cynical. Pfft....

No one cares why you're cynical.

Aww.... You shouldn't be so hard on yourself. At the very least you're someone. ;)

Seriously though, all the sniping that goes on at me - and sometimes at my opinions - really reinforces my native cynicism too much. Not to mention that Lemmy is perfectly capable of defending his own posts.

Yeah, when I read posts like Ironthruth's (above), and most of yours (everywhere), it makes me think of what Bill Maher recently said. And since he said it best:

Bill Maher on Liberals

Grand Lodge

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Quark Blast wrote:
Irontruth wrote:
Quark Blast wrote:
Lemmy wrote:
Also, pretty much everything bad has higher chance to happen to low-income people, since a higher income gives you more means to avoid the bad stuff.
Wait, are you saying that pornography is bad stuff? If so, one more for the Destructive Entertainment camp.
You put words into people's mouths almost as well as Peter North puts.... you get the idea.

Is there a point to this red herring?

Or do you just like to obtusely beat up on honest expression of opinions?

Or is it you like the easy pickings of verbally slapping a minor on a public forum?

And people wonder why I'm cynical. Pfft....

I thought cynicism was cool when I was younger. Now I realize that it's just a lazy dodge to avoid the hard work of caring.


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Quark Blast wrote:
Durngrun Stonebreaker wrote:
Quark Blast wrote:
Irontruth wrote:
Quark Blast wrote:
Lemmy wrote:
Also, pretty much everything bad has higher chance to happen to low-income people, since a higher income gives you more means to avoid the bad stuff.
Wait, are you saying that pornography is bad stuff? If so, one more for the Destructive Entertainment camp.
You put words into people's mouths almost as well as Peter North puts.... you get the idea.

Is there a point to this red herring?

Or do you just like to obtusely beat up on honest expression of opinions?

Or is it you like the easy pickings of verbally slapping a minor on a public forum?

And people wonder why I'm cynical. Pfft....

No one cares why you're cynical.

Aww.... You shouldn't be so hard on yourself. At the very least you're someone. ;)

Seriously though, all the sniping that goes on at me - and sometimes at my opinions - really reinforces my native cynicism too much. Not to mention that Lemmy is perfectly capable of defending his own posts.

Yeah, when I read posts like Ironthruth's (above), and most of yours (everywhere), it makes me think of what Bill Maher recently said. And since he said it best:

Bill Maher on Liberals

You have a process you repeat regularly

1) remove context
2) add value judgments that weren't there
3) attack those value judgments

Am I supposed to take you seriously when you literally invent meanings for other peoples posts and act like you're some sort of righteous crusader of debate?

The answer to that rhetorical question is "no" btw. Yes, I do find some of your opinions to be out there, and potentially even ridiculous. But it's really your style of interacting with people that I find almost completely lacking in substance. The reason there's no substance is that you invent things for other people to say out of thin air and then proceed on as if they were Newton's Laws.


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"Look at me! I'm cynical and angsty! I don't care about anything! And I'll prove it by replying again and again and mentioning my cynism over and over! I'm so deep..."

Heh...


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Everything bad has a higher probability of hitting poor people, simply because there are more of those. And the discussion was about whether Gark motivated his argument about porn being harmful to poor people by equating porn with trafficking and the like. We never got an answer, only Gark's statement. Sorry, Quark, as I read it, you don't have anything to base that "chalk one up for destructive" on.


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Whether or not porn is invariably harmful (as opposed to in certain instances, which I don't think anyone would argue against) depends largely on your presuppositions. As a staunch Roman Catholic, I'm likely to give an answer that's not only at variance with the majority above, but my reasons behind those perspectives would be dismissed out of hand as lacking any substance. Both sides have likely hit the high points and have heard it all before. Neither side's impressed with the others' arguments.

Sometimes, people's preconceptions prevent them from genuinely reaching each other in dialogue, because one side or both thinks the other is simply operating with a screw loose, a delusional perspective, or a lack of wisdom/enlightenment that illustrates the point.

Either that, or you think the other guy's a stoopid head.


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LazarX wrote:
I thought cynicism was cool when I was younger. Now I realize that it's just a lazy dodge to avoid the hard work of caring.

That's, uh ... really profound, actually.


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I don't know. I've ranked myself among the cynical since I was a teenager; it has never stopped me from caring.

Liberty's Edge

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Yeah, but you're an old school Cynic.

Straight out of Athens, Gobbo.


Don Juan de Doodlebug wrote:
I don't know. I've ranked myself among the cynical since I was a teenager; it has never stopped me from caring.

Besides, if a person really doesn't care about anything, they're probably too apathetic to be cynical.


Nihilism is the true manifestation of not caring, not cynicism.


Krensky wrote:

Yeah, but you're an old school Cynic.

Straight out of Athens, Gobbo.

Get outta the way of my light, Alex.


Another perspective on pornography here.


Yeah, I've noticed Hedges's Presbyterian ministerism has really been coming to the fore lately.


Don Juan de Doodlebug wrote:
Yeah, I've noticed Hedges's Presbyterian ministerism has really been coming to the fore lately.

...not to mention his political activism, his wartime correspondentism, his investigative journalism, his bestselling authorism, His Pullitzer Prize winningism, his socialism, etc etc etc.


Whew... Sooooo... Hedges doesn't like porn?


I think he's of the opinion that it and prostitution are the tip of the iceberg of the myriad problems of our predatory, capitalist, violent society.

The capitalism point is well taken. Currently, those with the most money can purchase the most sex. And the poor/unskilled/uneducated are the most incentivized to sell sex. If porn and prostitution went away the rich would have to, I don't know, rely on their innate charm/appearance/decency instead.


Dustin Ashe wrote:

I think he's of the opinion that it and prostitution are the tip of the iceberg of the myriad problems of our predatory, capitalist, violent society.

The capitalism point is well taken. Currently, those with the most money can purchase the most sex. And the poor/unskilled/uneducated are the most incentivized to sell sex. If porn and prostitution went away the rich would have to, I don't know, rely on their innate charm/appearance/decency instead.

I'm not sure about the "tip", but both porn and even more prostitution are definitely linked to both direct exploitation and some damn creepy attitudes towards (usually) women.

Which isn't to say they create such attitudes or exploitation in general or that all porn, or even prostitution, is necessarily creepy or exploitative. There's definitely a correlation though.


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Well, what can I say... He sure hates capitalism. I wouldn't say that the link he tries to paint between modern day porn and exploitation of Philippino women in 1898 is as clear as he thinks it is. It sounds more like "porn is bad so let's call it capitalist and imperialist. Many, many, many times."

A) If he heard a sex worker claim that she liked doing what she did, would he listen to her, or is she then a brainwashed tool of the capitalist, evil, imperialist, capitalist and capitalist world capitalism?

B) How does he reconcile recent decades' reduction in poverty with capitalism being so, so... Capitalist?

Liberty's Edge

Even without porn and prostitution, I think you'd still find the rich being able to find a bed partner with far less work than us working schlubs. I don't think the two are as related as some are claiming.


Hmm, that's weird. Why do people pay for it then, if those with money can get it for free?


For free? Seriously? :-)

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Sissyl wrote:

Well, what can I say... He sure hates capitalism. I wouldn't say that the link he tries to paint between modern day porn and exploitation of Philippino women in 1898 is as clear as he thinks it is. It sounds more like "porn is bad so let's call it capitalist and imperialist. Many, many, many times."

A) If he heard a sex worker claim that she liked doing what she did, would he listen to her, or is she then a brainwashed tool of the capitalist, evil, imperialist, capitalist and capitalist world capitalism?

B) How does he reconcile recent decades' reduction in poverty with capitalism being so, so... Capitalist?

I think you can legitimately hate things like the power of the Koch Brothers, the collateral effects of monopolization, the crushing wealth income gap, the overwhelming dependence on created exploited classes without hating capitalism itself.

The problem being, when you remove all of the above and the mechanisms which lead to them, what's left? Marx would say that the present situation of the United States is an inevitable result of capitalism, and what evidence is there to say he's wrong?


As I see it, people's desire to improve things, coupled with a willingness to invest to get there. The problem is that capitalism is a low-level phenomenon, but various political figures prefer to negotiate with fewer, wealthier people to dealing with significant parts of the population directly. Thus, they actively support monopolies, oligopolies and so on, usually through the use of tax money, and through various slanted regulations. Add to this mix a dearth of reporting viewpoints for the masses, and it becomes a problem. The solution to this, however, is most certainly not a planned economy.

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Sissyl wrote:
As I see it, people's desire to improve things, coupled with a willingness to invest to get there. The problem is that capitalism is a low-level phenomenon, but various political figures prefer to negotiate with fewer, wealthier people to dealing with significant parts of the population directly. Thus, they actively support monopolies, oligopolies and so on, usually through the use of tax money, and through various slanted regulations. Add to this mix a dearth of reporting viewpoints for the masses, and it becomes a problem. The solution to this, however, is most certainly not a planned economy.

Why not? The idea that the market would regulate itself has been throughly debunked. The ever increasing income gap is not just a problem of aesthetics, it's going to have real and severe consequences if it's allowed to proceed unchecked. The game as it is, IS rigged, with the benefits, the gains going to an increasingly smaller fraction of the population It's no longer a story of rags to riches, it's now a progression from being born rich to getting even richer.


Thoroughly debunked, let me guess, by a foaming plethora of anticapitalist think tanks? Colour me not impressed. For starters, you have no clue how bad it would have been with a market that did not self-correct. Such as... The old soviet union. Capitalism has many flaws, but if bread grows too expensive, someone will produce it cheaper and outcompete the previous companies. There has to my knowledge not been bread queues in the US. Consider yourself blessed that you did not grow up in the old eastern bloc, my friend.


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Sissyl wrote:
Thoroughly debunked, let me guess, by a foaming plethora of anticapitalist think tanks? Colour me not impressed. For starters, you have no clue how bad it would have been with a market that did not self-correct. Such as... The old soviet union. Capitalism has many flaws, but if bread grows too expensive, someone will produce it cheaper and outcompete the previous companies. There has to my knowledge not been bread queues in the US. Consider yourself blessed that you did not grow up in the old eastern bloc, my friend.

Capitalism has many flaws, but if bread grows too expensive, people will starve, reducing the population until the demand for bread shrinks and the price falls to a level everyone can afford.

See the market self-corrects.

Obviously an extreme example, but theoretically correct. There's no magic in capitalism that guarantees cheaper stuff as the answer to every problem.

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