Is there a chart that shows what classes you want to take for optimizing your abilities fro a single stat? Or maybe a thread taht puts it all together? Like I have a charismatic character what classes give CHA to AC, Att, Damage, or anything else...
That is part of a school of thought called "munchkinry" and not at all appreciated in these forums.
But if you are in need of a guide, look no further than here: Getting X to do Y
I wouldn't consider it too munchkiny - most of the X to Y stuff is class features, so either you only get some of it, or you multiclass to get all of it and end up with what is likelier a weaker build.