I have tried my hand at PbP quite a few times, and the format just isn't for me. It's too slow. I have played a few VTT games, mostly with Fantasy Grounds, and frankly it's been almost as good as an in-person game. So I'm looking to see if anyone around here is running anything that isn't play by post, but is online.
I also have a girlfriend who's been wanting to get into RPGs. She used to play back in high school (well over a decade ago) but is a total newbie now. So if you have room for two players, that would be nice (though she said she's content to wait if I can only find a group with room for one).
People tend to look for games in the medium they also want to play in.
There're pretty big Pathfinder/D&D Discord servers. I've found my longest running game through there.
I also see ads on the forums/Discords of the dedicated platforms (ie FG forums, or Roll20 discord)
Send me a private message if you'd like me to share any invites to.