Peoples view an ally here.

[Chess Pwn]

As a standard action, the phantom can make a melee attack against a foe. If this attack hits, the spiritualist designates one ally threatening that enemy. This ally can make a single attack at his full base attack bonus against that enemy as an immediate action.

The kindness phantom gets the above ability.

Is the spiritualist able to designate his phantom for the immediate attack?

If the spiritualist was next to the enemy could he choose himself?

[Rysky]

No.

Yes.

For Id Rangers I'd also say no as that would fall under the "makes no sense" clause when determining if you count as your own ally.

[Garbage-Tier Waifu]

To the first question: Given the ally FAQ and some of the other weird stuff around that, yes I suppose you can.

To the second question: Yes, absolutely. Is this bonded manifestation? Then if question one is valid, so is this. If it is phanton delivering the artack, then that is totally valid as your phantom is a separate creature.