not sure if im doing this right wizard and familiar meld.

[jonhl1986]

so if i take spell sponge and use monstrous physique 2 with a target of you and apply it to my familiar and make it a gargoyal and then cast familiar meld will i then get the natural attacks of the gargoyal or just better to make us both gargoyals ?

[jbadams]

Familiar Melding allows you to possess the body of your familiar, effectively leaving your own body 'dead' in the meantime; so nothing would happen to your own body, and you would instead be controlling the familiar.

So, your familiar assumes the form of the gargoyle (assuming that's a valid creature type... I didn't check that), gaining the abilities listed under Monstrous Physique, and the duration of this is doubled thanks to Spell Sponge.

You then use Familiar Melding to possess your familiar, essentially acting as it instead of yourself with the exceptions (potentially being able to speak and cast spells, etc.) as listed in the description of Familiar Melding.

You definitely don't both become gargoyles, sorry. :)