
Java Man |
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What I have said before:
My one absolute statement of advice is to be wary of advice from strangers on forums (even me saying this). With that said I would suggest you have a solid talk with a live human, therapist, minister, parent, soul mate, shaman, whatever source of guidance is available to you that you have faith in. By faith I don't necessarily mean religious, but someone/thing that you believe can help you. Because if you don't trust the source it can't help you.