This may be the wrong area, and if so I apologize.
I know if im using an aether kineticist who has kinetic haul, to grab some one do I use my ranged bonus if they are at a distance or is it still my CMB? And once I do have them, is there a chart/way to calculate damage if I try to crush/squeeze them while telekineticly grapple/held? And I know there should be a way to break the telekinetic hold but not sure how, since there is no one to fight.