and then three ba'atezu walk into a bar, who gets an AoO?
no, wait...
If you are grappling, but not grappled yourself, can the following things occur?
1. can you move away from your grapple target? (if the weapon you're using to perform the grapple has enough reach)
2. can your grapple target reverse the grapple?
3. if you are not adjacent to your grapple target (owing to the answer to question 1), can your grapple target reverse the grapple (question 2) even if they do not have enough reach?