
MageofMyth |

One of the ways that I have gotten people, mostly women, to game is to find out their interest outside of the game. What types of books do they read? Movies and TV shows watched? Then try to do something that is based off of that media. A lot of people find it hard to game in a world where their character knows lots of things and they (the player) know very little about the place. One of the reasons that many people like White Wolf is because they know the modern world just like their character does. Sure it is different but their character is also finding that out.
Are any of her friends into fantasy or sci-fi?
I ask about her friends because if you could start a new game with her and another friend, only, then she wouldn’t feel so much in the fishbowl.
If she likes to watch Buffy then buy the rulebook and run Buffy. In fact this will help because then you can say that you are learning the rules with her. If she likes the Warehouse 13 series then have her and a friend roll up either fighters or rogues, from Pathfinder. Then run a game based around Warehouse 13. She likes Law and Order then they roll up fighters or rogues and follow the clues. In love with the Harry Potter stuff then they play first level mages starting with no spells in a modern magic school. If her favorite book is the Nanny Diaries then she is a nanny fighting the big-bad parent for a child's sanity. Anything can be a RPG you just need to think about it.
The point is to play to the person’s interests. Once they are comfortable playing then move them into a more traditional game. This will also let you find out what her favorite parts of gaming are.
Oh and I am both a woman and a DM.