Varisian intermarriage

[Copernicus Mandrake I]

Okay folks, I'm looking for ideas. In my CotCT campaign, a Chelish man is pursuing a serious relationship with a mutually interested Varisian woman from a very traditional family.

Pathfinder #7, Edge of Anarchy, included the very informative article "Peolle of the Road" detailing the Varisian people and their culture. In that article, it says the following: "Varisians cherish family above all, and are loath to admit just anyone into their family. Marriage to non-Varisians is strongly frowned upon, but a family might accept a foreign suitor who proves his worth and spends enormous effort to win over his future family."

So, I would like to hear some ideas of how this Chelish man might go about proving himself to his prospective in-laws. Thank you.

[Deadmanwalking]

Are you the GM? If so, well, this:

Spoiler:

Seven Days To The Grave involves the PCs literally saving the Varisian people of Korvosa from a plague that would've likely killed almost all of them. This is almost guaranteed to include members of said family.

Really, that ought to do it on its own if she has any family in Korvosa. And if they aren't in Korvosa they aren't there to object, are they?

If you're not the GM, that's full of spoilers for early chapters, but I think the existing plotline of CotCT basically covers this in most cases.

[Copernicus Mandrake I]

I am the GM, and thank you.