I am in 2 different games with RotRL, DMing one and playing in one--the one I'm DMing is about 1 1/2 modules behind the one I'm playing in. In the game I run we have 4 women and 2 men, the funny thing is one of the men is the "tag-a-long" spouse, not really that into gaming but his wife is so he participates so he won't feel left out. In my game the players are:
- Female Gnome Rogue with a female player
- Male Shoanti Barbarian, male player, this is the tag-a-long husband
- Female Elf Cleric of Desna, female player and probably my most committed player, she's the wife of Mr. Tag-a-long
- Female Half-Elven Half-Varisian Sorceress with fey bloodline, female player (my sister)
- Male Chelaxian Marshal (converted to PFRPG), my sister's wife
- Male Chelaxian Paladin of Iomedae, lately of Lastwall, male player
In the game I play in, I'm the only girl and I play a half-elf cleric. One difference I notice between the 2 groups is gender comes up a lot more in the group with mostly men--my character's gender is alluded to or reacted to several times each gaming session. In the game I DM, gender hardly ever comes up, even times when I would have thought it might, like all the female characters failing saves and running away.