My brother gms for my group and we are all family. I would like to not kill everything on site for xp but everyone else wants to play that way and I was told unless I come up with a chart I'm stuck playing their way. I'd like an alternative to that is built into the game but I know next to nothing about pathfinder being a new player and we use roll20 so I don't have all of the game rules like gods and such without buying it. I tried the whole route of just make diplomacy quests but he keeps saying that's not how the game is made. Any advice or pointing me in the right direction would be nice. If all else fails I'll have to quit my group with my family and I don't want that if I can avoid it. It is a home brew.