| Ryan Z. |
I also have no shame in expressing my uber-nerd tendencies to, well, everyone! Maybe I've transitioned to some sort of post-modern nerd phase. I wear stylish designer clothes, spike my hair, drive a nice car, have a corporate job, and flaunt my geekdom to everyone.
I interact a ton with clients and customers and have found that most people are just afraid of sharing anything about themselves. Talking about yourself and your "coolness shortcomings" helps other people open up.
When I need to get email addresses from clients is when the opportunity usually presents itself. I've had in depth conversations on the World of Darkness with 30 year old men while discussing the applicability of their coverage, chatted with groups of 20-somethings I've met at the gym about our favorite 2ED "Complete..." book (tie between the Necromancer and Ninja handbook ;)) between sets of front squats, and rapped about classic Battletech over the phone with complete strangers.
Don't be ashamed of your nerdiness. Embrace it.