Abitan's attitude is that the squad is a surrogate family of sorts... but in a Manson Family way lol.
He doesn't see himself as a leader, nor want that responsibility, is only real loyalty is to Hakon and will generally take on board his council. He values the squad though, and is impressed with anyone who can kill with skill or compliments his cooking.
I see Abi's affinity for his fellow Crimson Kings growing as the campaign develops... as they become more family so his protectiveness will grow [he'll match insult to them with injury to the insultor for instance].
As for morals - Abitan literally has none. No compunctions about killing anything he's asked to. More than willing to do actions that morally others might be uncomfortable with [torture, child killing, murder etc]. While he currently won't seek to do those unless ordered, long term Abi's mental state is on a knife edge and Hakon [worryingly] is his moral compass of sorts.
In short [hey he's a halfling lol] Abi's a little psycho... but he's your psycho :)
