As a new player in my groups pathfinder game, I'm trying my best to do research and some out-of-game planning and goal-setting. We've only had a handful of sessions so far and each session has had at least 4 fights. I'm playing a gnome bard, and although have done pretty well in fights (practically unscathed, while the fighters have nearly died twice), I don't think my character would be THIS violent. She's okay with fighting, but it's getting boring. I have high charisma and wouldn't mind talking to the NPCs, but the rest of the group seems pretty set on murdering every guy that looks at us funny. Is this just how the game goes or are there any tips for avoiding all the bloodshed?
Thank you so much in advance!!