So the order has been on hold for 9 months (Approximately 270 days) because of one shirt is not in stock in that size?
Instead of sending without the shirt. I would rather swap the shirt with
"Pathfinder Second Edition Logo T-Shirt" XL, which is also from Offworld Designs.
And then with the $3 refund. We can work towards how Paizo can repay that. It cannot be refunded to the card which purchased this order 9 months ago, as it has in the intervening period been cancelled due to fraud.