Tried to look for an answer in the forums and rulebook but couldn't find anything...
Let's say you use a weapon like the Dan Bong from UC. It's an exotic weapon that does 1D3, has range, blocking, etc. The text is the following:
Quote:
These short, blunt sticks are held in the hands to enhance unarmed martial techniques.
Benefit: They provide the wielder with the ability to lock an opponent and target pressure points that grant her a +2 bonus on her combat maneuver to grapple.
Also, looking at Exotic Weapon Proficiency (EWP), it says:
Quote:
Choose one type of exotic weapon, such as the spiked chain or whip. You understand how to use that type of exotic weapon in combat, and can utilize any special tricks or qualities that exotic weapon might allow.
Benefit: You make attack rolls with the weapon normally.
Normal: A character who uses a weapon with which he is not proficient takes a –4 penalty on attack rolls.
My question is... Can you use it without being proficient (without EWP) and still get the +2 to grapple? The flavour text from EWP says you need the feat to "utilize any special tricks or qualities", so I'm pretty sure you wouldn't be able to use the "blocking or monk" properties but what about a benefit listed in the description of the weapon? I am confused with terms like special tricks, qualities and special weapon features (if they're all the same or not).