So, maybe I'm completely crazy, but I'm slowly piecing together a campaign for the first time, and for players I have my 10 year old cousin, his Mom, and my Mom. They're all fun, creative folks and both my Mom and my cousin are growing nerdlings. I plan to keep the fights a bit easier for a few levels, and to involve a lot of crazy high-fantasy stuff to make it exciting. All-in-all, I'm not really -terribly- worried about our odd group or learning how to DM. What I would really love, however, is advice from experienced folks who might know a great deal more off the top of their heads than I do.
-Any general advice for methods of making fights exciting and fun for such a wide age gap while still remaining challenging? I'd like to keep the risk real, but I don't think I could really kill any of them any time in the next 15 levels without being forced to eat boiled hay for a week.
-My Mom immediately jumped on the idea of playing out her favorite fantasy character, 'Polgara' (see: boiled hay) from the Eddings' series (fantastic read if you haven't seen them before). She expressed that she would like to provide some healing, but also wants to be a 'powerful sorceress'. I've already explained to her that part of the fun is starting out a little underpowered and growing to be someone powerful and awesome, and she accepts that. The problem is choosing what kind of caster. Witches and druids have more healing options, but I'm fairly certain she will prefer a more free-form caster and won't want to have to pick through a spell list every day. Thus, a sorcerer's casting method seems more likely. Any thoughts? Multiclassing from a healer into a sorcerer or something sounds a bit complicated for her.
-My cousin should be okay, I've talked him into playing a fighter and plan to simplify things by just giving him a shortened list of feats to choose from and suggesting the best equipment for him. That way he can just kinda jump into the fray. He's quite clever for his age, but has a limited patience for confusing or complex things. Again, if this sparks up any particular advice for similar situations, feel free to cast it my way. :)
-My aunt is still trying to decide if she wants to play at all, so I may have to get back to this later. She likes fairies, woodland things, and the idea of shapeshifting, so a druid or something with fae bloodlines seems pretty obvious, but I cannot be sure yet. Druids have such boring spell lists at early levels, so that worries me.
Mostly, this is all coming together for my cousin. He wants to play with my adult friends and I... not a particularly good mix. He's a good kid, I think he could benefit a great deal from playing, and I've always wanted to try DMing. Seems like the thing to do. :) Thanks in advance. <3