so the campaign i am about to join soon will be my first time playing as a paladin. i decided sarenrae would be my patron for this character. i have read through her paladin code and read up on some of her general lore and i am kind of looking for a little advice.
first off i want to mention i am not going to be lawful stupid. i intend to think before swinging a blade at anything with an evil alignment.
that said one of the other players that is in the party is planning on taking levels into diabolith at some point.
so my question is this:
since the dawn flower is the goddess of redemption among other things and she wants to turn everything from evil, how should i handle travelling with such a character?
i am thinking as a player that doesn't want to ruin another person's fun that i should just bide my time and carefully watch him and only say something or act if he starts to do something that would harm innocents or something along those lines.
however as a paladin i feel like i should be trying fairly often to try and turn him from his dark and damning path to redeem his soul and lead him into the light of the dawn flower.
any advice from seasoned champions of the light?