Hey all! Creepy GM here. This is actually the first time I've heard about any of this being problematic, including from the player in question in my game, which the OP is not a part of, nor has ever been. In fact, she's not once accepted an invitation to a game I'm running, even one offs and hasn't ever mentioned it was because of a dislike of me, personally.
I've lurked on these boards for a few months now, and just happened to come across this thread, and was shocked to find a warped version of a scene from my game. A scene, might I add, that happened weeks, if not a month or two prior to the original post in January.
Now, to get a few things set in stone 100%. I completely agree. Rape scenes aren't cool in a game and have no place at the table. There were no rape scenes in my game. What the OP is referring to, that she failed to mention was that the player/character was being seduced by one of the Sidhe, over many rolls, and through various conversations and after having eaten Fae food and drink, which in all lore makes you more susceptable to the will of the Sidhe and/or having other various side effects of a magical nature. Rape was not a part of this, and the sex scene in question wasn't acted out. It was a fade to black.
What the OP also failed to note was that the character has now fallen in love with the Sidhe in question, because he was an acanthus, and had aspirations to be the master of Time Magic. The Sidhe's name in fact was the equivalent in high speech for time. She was the embodiment of time magic. The Acanthus in question is now on the path to becoming her Knight, a servant in the fallen world to a being in the supernal and last I checked was quite happy with the way the game is going.
The issue that the Acanthus had, was not the fact he slept with (not was raped by) a Fae Lady, but the manner in which the seduction happened, because she, being of the High Court of the Fae, came after him. That was my fault, admittedly. His character in game likes to chase women, not have them come to him with interest. I wasn't aware of this character trait, though after he pointed it out to me, it made sense.
Terribly sorry my first post has to be about this, but I've been wanting a reason to register an account here, and this huge slap to my face was good enough to do so. Furthermore, I hope if there's any issues with Nepherti, she'll come to me and talk about them to my face, rather than ranting here with what I hope is only having gotten half the story, rather than pointedly putting out half truths to try and make me out to be a horrible person in front of a group of people I've never met.