I'm going to start a thread entitled "No more threads about no more threads about" complaining about how people keep starting threads telling other posters what threads they should or should not start on the boards.
The internet (and the Paizo messageboards) has given us all a voice. Many have decided to use it to complain. In this thread, many have chosen to use that voice to complain about the complainers. My new thread will be the natural extension to that; I shall complain about those who complain about complainers.[END_JEST]
OK, so some people don't think Pathfinder has done everything "right", or at least, that's the way they choose to approach their arguments. Perhaps instead of calling the issues they take with the rules "wrong", or "broken", or "ridiculously game breaking I can't believe anyone would shell out good money for this OMG seriously I think I'm going to gouge my own eyes out if I read one more page...", these posters could instead say something to the effect of "I have a bit of a problem with rule X for reasons Y and Z. Is anyone else finding this a problem, and if so, how are you addressing it in your game?". Maybe this would be a better approach, but let's face it, we aren't all diplomats, and many may lack the tact to make sure no one takes issue with HOW they say what they take issue with. What most of use are, is enthusiasts.
An enthusiast gets emotional. He gets annoyed. She gets angry and frustrated. He throws his dice across the table and curses when he rolls a 1 for hit points. She rolls her eyes and says, "You aren't playing next weekend, too, are you?" (Oops.. that's not an enthusiast, that's the reaction of a wife who is NOT an enthusiast)
What I'm coming to (the long way; the only way I know how) is that the gaming community is going to complain. They're going to gripe endlessly, and throw out words like "broken", "unbalanced", and "desperately needs a fix". You can't stop it, no matter how many times you beg and plead for it to stop. It's silly to try (says the guy who is trying to convince people they shouldn't bother to ask people to stop, knowing people are still going to try it...)
And more to the point: You shouldn't really want it to (but, feel free to want it to, that's your right). Sure, the approach many of these posters take is irritating, but the point is, they are getting people talking about the game(s) we all love. They may say "broken", but they sometimes point out weaknesses in the rules, places where they misunderstand the rules (possibly a sign they need clarification), or at least it brings issues others have and their solutions into the spotlight.
I don't think there is much that is strictly "right" or "wrong" in the rules, be they Pathfinder, 3.x core, splat, etc. For the most part, it comes down to what is right or wrong for your game or gaming group. One group's "broken" is another group's favorite rule. Pathfinder is really just another set of house rules. I've never played a game without. Some people just want to beg Paizo to make their houserules core, or to remove something that they feel "breaks" their game. If what they're saying makes sense, they might someday get their way. If the vast majority of us point out how flawed said houserule in, they probably won't. This is what Paizo excels at: listening to their audience and reacting appropriately. If people aren't talking (kindly or otherwise), we must not need anything more out of them. Hopefully that doesn't happen anytime soon. Guess that means I'm voting for more "let's change pathfinder" threads...
On the flip-side, to those saying, "I shouldn't need houserules to play the game." I'll say this: If Pathfinder was flawless for you, requiring not the slightest tweak to suit you, you can guarantee I will have to houserule some things to suit me. And that suits me just fine.