As a casting cleric. I can tell you the low levels hurt really bad. There are a few choice spells to look at.
1st level
Command, Murderous Command (One of the best spells ever!)
2nd level
Burst of Radiance, Hold Person, Sound Burst, Spear of Purity, Spiritual Weapon
I will suggest spending gold on a few items.
1: Rod of Lesser Metamagic Extend : Spiritual Weapon, or Murderous Command + Extend= Happy Cleric.
2: Pearls of Power : Recalling extra Murderous Commands per adventuring day is very nice. The proper amount you should have one or two Murderous commands per fight.
Far fights are for amateurs. Real fighters take every advantage they can get. Death is counter productive to your health.
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For actions. Get use to delaying, or moving your self to the right place. Playing a full caster is not about casting spells every round. It is about casting the right spells each time. You can play a more effective caster if you cast one, or two of the right spells each encounter. Over just casting spells because you want something to do.